How to respond when your date disappears and refuses to take his belonging back?

[Anonymous]

I’m kind of annoyed because there’s this who asked me out 3 times and then kept making excuses to not meet. Last time we met he put his glasses in my bag and never wanted them back. I could see that we wouldn’t meet any near time and so I asked if he wants me to mail it to him. I didn’t want anything of him in my house. He acted all surprised and said we will just meet when we are both available, he got a new job etc. even after that though it has been like 10 days and he hasn’t said anything. At this point I’m thinking of throwing his shades. And actually deleting him off my social media since he has turned into a ghost.

[pixie215]

take them to a lost and found atta store way waaay across town, turn them in that you found them there, text him that his glasses are atta lost and found across town at such and such store, then block and be done with him

[Asker]

Haha he deserves to be blocked

[SnakeBoop]

you send him a last message saying they have so many days to collect them. then you can toss them.

[Asker]

What do u mean? I already messaged him. He will take another message as me chasing him.

[SnakeBoop]

no. just message him again saying "collect by this date or your things are being thrown away".

[Asker]

Hahaha hilarious. Though I don’t think he will care. I can do that in about 10 days then. Thanks for the advice 🙂

[Asker]

Should I also remove him on social media? It just feels like he is treating me as a Low-priority who he can lead on?

[SnakeBoop]

remove him after the deadline to retrieve the stuff if you want.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Some guys are really assholes...
They don't even know what girls like & dislikes. please throw him away from your hottness. 😘

[Honesttguy]

Wait what? I get all the asshole part but hottness? What is that behaviour? Are u trying to seduce anonymous account? Pls behave

[Asker]

@Honesttguy I’m actually upset and he’s making it worse trying to take advantage of me haha