Why Do Some Young Guys Like Older Women (and vice versa)?

[TransAm85]

I was watching this funny stand up show, aspiring comedians, and they were talking about why guys like cougars. It was pretty hilarious! I order often in the morning from GrubHub some mochas before I go to work and there's this cute delivery boy that is probably 20-22 .. driving a Mercedes so he's doing more than working for GrubHub but he's so cute and I see he wants to talk to me every time he gives me my coffee, but I'm old enough to be his mom! I'm also married, but if I left my husband for this young, party hearty, most likely drug transporting youth.. what would I gain? Good sex I know for certain! But why do the young guys want the cougars? Some maybe $ or security?

[Anonymous]

When I first started getting back in the dating scene post divorce I was pretty set on only dating men my age (or older). I thought a younger guy would be way too immature. However, over not a long period of time I found out there weren't as many great options my age as many of the good ones were already taken. I became really frustrated with dating. One day a much younger guy asked me out. Normally I'd never consider going out with someone so much younger (and probably immature). However, I was pretty desperate as things weren't working out well, so I said yes.
It turned out that we clicked really well. I could both tell there was an intense attraction between us. I latter discovered that the age difference was probably a good thing for us (or at least me). I found out that I needed a guy who had the energy to keep up with me, had my same sense of adventure, was open minded about a woman who is financially/professionally successful (guys my age usually aren't), someone with a bit less baggage/more optimism, and someone with a higher sex drive (also, I love his muscular body and the fact he can recover faster/get harder/go so many more rounds). That's all something found in younger men.
The relationship with that guy didn't work out, but the man I started dating soon afterwards was 15 years younger than me (and an even better fit). He's become my now boyfriend. We've been dating for almost a year and have loved every minute of it!

[CrazyGirl2]

Maybe they just know that women don’t hit our sexual prime until 36. For guys, it’s 18 so their 18th is kinda “Happy birthday to you, happy… AH shit”! ⤵️👇🏼🔻📉😔

[Still-alive]

accurate lol

[CrazyGirl2]

@Still-alive As gross as it seems, the perfect sexual partners are an 18yo stud-muffin, and a 36yo hottie! The sex would be amazing, I could imagine her saying “Shhh, don’t say anything and spoil it”a lot, but yeah, it’d be amazing sex!

[SunnyREDone]

That's not true, young guys don't know what they are doing. Older men are always better, you are just a pervert

[Lionman95]

I think it´s the security of having a woman that knows what she wants and also can take control. Many guys don´t know how to date or take the lead so they look for a woman who has experience can lead and teach them.
Younger women are often shy and want the guy to take the iniative but those guys don´t feel well taking the iniative so they can´t find a partner of their age and therefore look for an experienced woman.

[SunnyREDone]

Young girls look for older experienced men

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

For me it was experience, knowledge and maturity. If she looks hot and is older then I’m chasing

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

My mom is 46, she has always been approached by more guys than me.
Most of these guys were younger than her.

I remember us going out together when I was like 17 and still all the men looked at her, she’s just super feminine and charming, while I am more tomboyish.

I always felt proud of her.

Why do they like older women?

Because why not.

They are sexy, mature, independent, financially secure, beautiful, well aware in their sexuality and they know what they want out of this life, they also communicate better.

Looking back when I was 19-20, I was quite childlike, I can imagine most smart men would rather choose someone older than me at that time and they would be right.

[sean1234]

Childlike? I was also I suppose to an extent, but never even cared to look at women 1 year older than me. Lol

[sean1234]

I meant at 19-20. Oh and some people don't age well and some do. Being independent is a very big turn off, so independent they don't need men? Sp financially secure they can live on their own and perhaps don't even need me?

[Graci_e]

I like older guys because I’m 16 and most guys younger than me are a little too immature. I’m at the age where I have a job, my drivers license and I’m staring up my own dog breeding business.

14yr olds are way too young and a 15yr old isn’t quite at the stage of a 16yr old. It’s a big step up and you’re so much closer to being an adult. A lot more is expected from you.

I want someone older that can drive, has a job and is closer to finishing school. As a girl, I don’t really want someone that’s behind me in those milestones.

I’m not really expecting to date for a while though. I honestly don’t date much.

[exitseven]

When I was in my 20s I met this older woman that was probably in her 40s that worked for a company I was doing business with. She was not particularly beautiful but there was something about her that I found really attractive. I had a girlfriend at the time but this woman kept me awake at night.

[DeeRocc]

He's 22, you're 36; you would have birthed him at 14. You go girl!

[Anonymous]

Easy sex.

And older women are usually desperate or defeated or
Just want sex after there divorce and clinging on to their youth through a young guy.

[SunnyREDone]

Not me I don't like older woman. I only like women my age

[KaschKarryskype]

LOVE... Because, love don't care about your birthdates.

[Anonymous]

They're just desperate for pu$$y. Sexless guy desperate enough goes against his biology or he has a mommy fetish.

[Anonymous]

i think because like the maturity of older women and the way its easier to talk to them.

[varan69]

Its just something so hot. The sex, the talks, and a different type of fun but cougars are just hot and firm

[nawtee_me]

I can not answer this since I have always been into younger women. Would you like to go out sometime?

[tbradley]

i just think myself older women are better and always have found them more attractive and i hope one day to at least have a chance to talk/be with one as in dating

[James899]

Thats how nature generates ideas inside our brains!

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

At a surface glance, mature women have more developed bodies, meaning better tits and ass to admire.

[Nadim171]

Yeah I absolutely do, up to 50 years maybe but realistically I wouldn't date a woman over 40

[BLP11520]

When I was single I liked someone within about 5 years plus or minus.

[Anonymous]

So you would leave your husband for him if you got the chance?

[Boldy_Erin]

I'm 40 and get hit on by younger guys

[TrillXHippy]

Experience

[sean1234]

Not me.