How come my ex is now dating someone with all th things he criticised me for?

[Anonymous]

she's pale and doesn't have any style all the things that he criticised me for?

[UniquelyBasic]

Maybe they were excuses to find a reason to get out of the relationship with you.

[Asker]

It's such a weird story we lived in different countries he did ask me to live with him but he didn't say nice things do I never did.

[In_Trance]

what does it matter? stop paying attention to your ex and move on

[Anonymous]

Ouch, sounds like a dick. Or he misses you so he's dating someone like you

[Asker]

Not to sound dramatic I feel like I'm having a rough time like I'm not someone people are respecting I don't get it? I'm a nice person and soft spoken never been nasty too anyone and got in my fights. Have my shit together job etc and in very good shape

[Opinion Owner]

There's nothing wrong with you, sometimes we're just unfortunate and meet the wrong people in life. I've been through something similar recently and it burns

[Asker]

I don't understand why guys see me as a throw away. All he did was talk down at me and now he's treating her properly

[Slingblade1126]

I know when I separated with my first wife, the things she did that drove me crazy, like always clinging to me, pinching me, grabbing me... were the things I really missed when we split. There are a lot of those qualities in the woman I'm currently married to.

[spartan55]

She is better in bed.

[Wise4myage]

Why do you even care? Move on.

[Asker]

Just hurts a little he said i was a loner but I noticed she has hardly any friends. But anyway I did have friends I just don't get what I did. I'm feeling worthless these days

[Wise4myage]

Stop thinking like that, because it can destroy your self confidence.

[Anonymous]

She probably freakier in bedroom sorry

[Iron_Man]

He’s a confused lad

[Asker]

Maybe he did like me but we were long distance so he would say a lot of bad stuff I dunno why I guess I'll never know

[Iron_Man]

Just talk it out with him you’ll find out very soon

[Asker]

We aren't talking anymore

[Iron_Man]

Aww sorry