Guy hates a girl but?

[Anonymous]

A guy went on a date with a girl with the hopes of having a brief fling with her (sex fling for 2 or 3 weeks with no intention of having a relationship) but she didn't kiss or have sex with you and instead seemed like she wanted to date/relationship. The guy gets mad that she didn't kiss or sleep with him so he ghosts her and never texts her again and starts seeing other women. Then why does he have her number? Would you keep the numbers or delete it? PS he was angry, upset and really rude to her afterwards but wouldn't stop talking to her either , in person. However , he has no intention of meeting her, texting her so why keep the number?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like "the girl" is way too hung up on a fuckboy. If she had self-respect she wouldn't worry herself about someone who clearly wants to fck but she thinks she can win him over and change him to be a committed man with her I don't know what.

[Asker]

You know now he's suddenly being nice to her after she text him to stay safe and if he needs help when he was carrying a lot of stuff.
He isn't being rude or aggressive but still not texting. Do you think this is his game to get her in bed?

[Asker]

Yeah but he's already ficking other girls , she's seen him meeting girls at bars

[Opinion Owner]

Yes he's keeping in touch with her in case he can hang out with her again and get her to bed. They're not usually rude because they wanna keep in touch with their options.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but it's always nice to have more options.

[Opinion Owner]

Also he didn't even text you, you're the one texting?

[Asker]

No but he was rude and cold to her, even quite condescending but after she talk with him, then text him to keep himself warm, he has now lost his coldness and rude attitude. Why do you think so?

[Asker]

but he was rude and cold to her, even quite condescending but after she talk with him, then text him to keep himself warm, he has now lost his coldness and rude attitude. Why do you think so?

[Opinion Owner]

Well she definitely wants to believe he's stopped being the cold hearted womanizer by her kindness, then she should go ahead and try to win his heart by letting go of her own self-esteem. But she shouldn't then come and say why guys are pricks when she gets played and dumped by him.

[Asker]

So you think he's acting?

[Opinion Owner]

Ask him out again. I can only assume.

[Asker]

But you said he is acting and she will get played?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sure you'll get played. But you'll have to find out for yourself.

[LepardLashes]

you erase and block his number. he told you what he wanted from the beginning he will still try if you entertain it

[Asker]

I mean is he that desperate? He gets the girls at the bar though?

[random_girl95]

Probably he doesn't care so much that he won't even bother to delete her number.

[Asker]

She has texted him so he knows he still has it and he cares because he has been rude and aggressive to her

[random_girl95]

I think that girl should let go of him as his behavior seems toxic to me

[Asker]

You know now he's suddenly being nice to her after she text him to stay safe and if he needs help when he was carrying a lot of stuff.
He isn't being rude or aggressive but still not texting. Do you think this is his game to get yer in bed?

[random_girl95]

Probably yes, once a guy has a thought of getting a girl in bed it won't be going off his mind so easily.

[Asker]

He keeps asking her any news, updates, how's things now. Earlier he would be hi or look extremely bitter when she would say hi to her or would be extremely cold when she would talk. Now he's not acting like that.
Could it be that he feels she's nice and caring or its only a ploy for sex?

[random_girl95]

My answer remains the same as above. I am sorry if I am being harsh, it's just my opinion.

[Asker]

So you think it's just for sex?

[random_girl95]

Unfortunately yes

[Asker]

Omg do you think he's a evil person then cos he's literally trying to exploit her kindness for sexual gain? Do you think if he eventually gets her in bed, he will treat her badly for making him wait?

[random_girl95]

Well i don't know for sure. Better keep away from such people, but if that girl wants him so much and wants to give him a chance she should be just very careful.

[Asker]

Careful about?

[random_girl95]

So that she wouldn't get hurt

[Asker]

Okay. But why is he after her when he already gets the bedroom action from the girls at bars? She's seen him meeting a girl at a bar.

And last week he was telling her that he was leaving to meet a friend for coffee

[Avicenna]

He still wants the pussy

[Asker]

Wtf is this?

[In_Trance]

So block him

[Asker]

OK. But why is he not blocking?

[In_Trance]

What does that matter?

[Asker]

Because when he has no intention of seeing her or meeting her then why even keep it?

[In_Trance]

Exactly... so block him

[Asker]

I'm asking for him. He's the one who doesn't want to then why keep it?

[In_Trance]

Stop worrying about other people and accept responsibility for your actions and judgements.
Block him and move on ffs.

[Asker]

I'm asking about him