What actually is going on?

[Anonymous]

So there's this guy i text with, he texted me first and mostly does. But, he disappears in mid conversation. He was also gone for 2 months. But he just always comes back. And it hurts so much when he disappears. I get depressed, crying all day and stuff.
So me and my friends, came up with two conclusions.
1. He knows that i like him. And he thought, 'oh! This girl likes me! Must make her fall in love!' and is using the toxic technique. Just for fun
2. He just does whatever he feels like not regarding what i will feel.
Ps: i asked him why he disappears and he said, 'sometimes i just don't feel like to be on social media'
But he's online forever.
So... Isn't this just another way of saying, 'sometimes i just don't feel like to talk to you'?
So for the first one, I've been thinking this forever. But, when he talks to me, i just brush the thought off. Because, he's so nice, so clean and everything!
Also, i would've known if he was actually doing that right? While talking, i would've known something!
So i think It's rather the second one
And i also want advice on what i should do
Pps: i never told him I'm in love with him
Please comment what i should do

Conclusion one (please tell me the reasons)

Conclusion two (please tell me the reasons)

[boggboss]

He speaks to you when other options dry up or he is bored and leaves when he has better choice

[boggboss]

Both your conclusions are too specific and both show he is doing this specifically because its you when u have no clue if your just another number to him

[Asker]

So for conclusion 2, i rather mean 'not regarding what the other person feels'
Or maybe I'm the only dull one

[boggboss]

Even if u was dull would u really want someone who treats people like that

[Asker]

Logically, no!
But I'm like.. In love!
And i also logically hate him. But i don't feel the hate

[boggboss]

Then good luck I guess as that same love u feel is why people end up in abusive relationships let's say best case he likes u and he is doing this to make u fall for him tou really think this is the only toxic thing he will do

[Asker]

I know..
I Don't see any hope in us
Thankyou for helping <3

[Guy13]

It does not sound like a good arrangement for me. You know what’s best for you though.

[Asker]

To delete him huh?

[Avicenna]

Id move on from him

[In_Trance]

Move on