Wtf is going on with my guy freind?

[JC1981]

Right long story short. Got a guy friend, pretty close with an emotional connection, there is a vibe but our love for each other was decided to stay platonic. I excepted this, but now he's constantly bring up the subject of sex would ruin us. Why the fudge is he continuing to say this and go on about how much he loves me when a decision has already been made on this subject? (usally after some drinks.) It's kinda getting anoying.

[Guy13]

No doubt…tell him to man-up and stop crying in his beer or stop drinking as it is not impressive. Do be a good friend.

[JC1981]

Yeah I should just tell him to stop hey 🙂

[Guy13]

I would but I’m no expert about these kinds of thing.🤷🏻‍♂️

[silkjames]

It's simple he is catching feelings just tell him he is annoying stop it or u not getting none nomore lol that should fix it back to normal lol 😂😂

[JC1981]

Uhh ok l... but he isn't getting none from me as it lol we've never been there.

[silkjames]

Wow poor guy no play play yet. I see how u do u go girl u be making dudes sprung over u like that :) lol... well looks like he got a lot of heart you got a lover boy on your hands he don't know no better cut homeboy some slack he might be the one u been waiting for all your life jk lol!

[JC1981]

More like poor me lol I was down for play at one stage. He pulled the platonic card and I excepted that. So you can see why it's getting anoying when he goes on about it.

[Wise4myage]

He needs to be reminded. Have yo mentioned how much it bugs you?

[JC1981]

Not yet, but next time I might need tell him unless he can give me reason why he keeps saying it, he needs to drop it.

[Wise4myage]

Definitely mention it.

[one1wild00]

Sounds like even though he agreed to keep it platonic he would be really ok with it being more.

[JC1981]

That's the thing, he was the one who initially wanted to stay platonic. I was down for it at the time.

[one1wild00]

If you are ok with whatever the situation Platonic, or relationship then let it play out and see what happens, Relationships will settle at their best level if you just let them be.

[JC1981]

Yeah that's what I'm rolling with. No expectations no disappointment.

[Jmmmfi4]

Probably just wants his dick sucked. There's no such thing as platonic with guys.

[JC1981]

Really? I've had platonic friendships with males that lasted up to a decade.

[Jmmmfi4]

No our only goal is to get your pants sooner or later

[spartan55]

Because your 'friend' wants to fuck you...🙄

[JC1981]

Is it normal for guys to do a 180 when a girl excepts the guy wants to stay platonic?

[spartan55]

Huh?

[JC1981]

He wanted to stay platonic. I was keen but respected the decision to stay platonic and dropped it. Now that he carries on about it.

[In_Trance]

wants to smash