Just think it’s weird why not just stay away?

[Bracefacesummer]

My son dad barely ever spend time with him barely see him I used to block him and just move forward he would write my sister and tell her to have me unblock him. But when he comes down from working from another state he always would tell me he’s coming down and going to get him and stuff but never do I’ll look ok his friends page and see he’s here and with his other kids spending time with them and once again lied again sometimes he even would send money but tell me I can always call if I need anything but when I finally started feeling comfortable and did that he would read my messages and not reply or send anything but try contacting me months or weeks later like nothing happened. I still would give him chances because this isn’t about me it’s about my son having a father in his life but I’m starting to feel like I should just give up completely. I just don’t get why contact me do those things say those things than turn and lie? I don’t go looking for him my son is going to be 3 son I don’t want to see him hurt like why not stay away why keep trying to reach out only to lie again.

[kylee2437]

He probably feels guilty but he’s caught him in whatever he caught up in unfortunately

[Bracefacesummer]

No he doesn’t know I made my friend add him on social media he don’t know I know her but sometimes I look and see stuff or I’ll see it in his friend page. Like the other day he told me to add him on Facebook I finally did but thought it was weird and told him to go accept it he didn’t lefted it for 3 days still nothing so I deleted the request. It’s like why ask me to add you and do that z

[kylee2437]

@bracedacesummer but that wasn’t your question. Your question was “just think it’s weird why not just stay away” his guilt of not being an active father eats him alive

[Bracefacesummer]

@ kylee2437 Oh sorry oh ok thanks guess that’s why

[Jamie05rhs]

Because he's a piece of shit.

[Bracefacesummer]

I just think he should just stay away if that’s the case because what’s the point this been going on since he was born he’s going to be 3 next month. I got the picture and disappeared changed my number and it’s like he finds my sister to contact her but still doing the same thing I’ve gave too many chances.

[Jamie05rhs]

Unfortunately, he has proven his character by this pattern of behavior. If he really wanted to be in his son's life, then he would have done so by now.

[Bracefacesummer]

Why won’t he just stay way than? I never bother him he made all his friends add me on Facebook too that I didn’t even know exist until I noticed they started posting him.. It’s like staying away is fine I got the picture long ago and he also calls me telling me his personal business like I asked.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Bracefacesummer I don't know, sis. I don't know