
Would you let you're girlfriend wear this in public?

I think it's pretty hot and I think that would be her choice because if she was my girlfriend she would know that we're going to be active and she's going to have to be very careful how she moves I think it's absolutely beautiful I think it's hot I think it's sexy but I think it would be her choice I don't think that she would want to wear it just for the fact I just have two things that I do and she wouldn't be that comfortable in that I don't think the like I said it's her choice I'd like to play Cowboys and Indians and she could wear it but yes if there is a place that we are going to she could actually wear it and move the way she wants to move then why not like I said it's her choice
Wow most of you guys here are making me sad, there's nothing wrong with politely asking your girlfriend to cover up more this girl here is gonna have a rough time trying to prevent people from seeing her underwear thanks to that outfit! besides that how are some of y'all not bothered by men starring at your girl because they are wearing revealing clothes? Don't you wanna be the only one she dresses sexy for you guys are generous now all the guys will see her in sexy outfits👍well done! and Mark the face book guy is making glasses that you can take pics with so dudes can now snap picks of your girlfriend while wearing glasses of her trying to stop people from seeing her underwear in that outfit and they'll go have so much fun with those pics! then also don't be angry if your lady gets male friends, male attention and if guys send her gifts👍.
no wonder the cheating rates have gone up! your ladies may be leaving you cause you let them wear such and it attracts guys who are wayy hotter than you and they end up leaving you for them! too much attention can go to your head and affect your behavior, well done dudes! π
@Jabberjaw ππ₯
I'm lucky in that respect, my boyfriend is usually a bit disappointed if I DON'T wear something like that clubbing, or at least a short denim skirt and a strappy top even to around the supermarket lol. The only time he gets uncomfortable/annoyed is if I've worn something like that all day and then tell him I'm not in the mood for sex. He hates that. The trouble is I find it hilarious. I guess I'm a bitch. However, he pretty much always gets his way the next morning, and it's usually better than ever.
She IS an adult, ... capable of making her OWN choices and expressing her predilection and/or exhibitionism... she WILL do as SHE deems fit; whether I am at her side... or not.
The REAL issue is NOT will I 'allow' her to wear that outfit, but instead do I consider MYSELF 'worthy' and secure-enough to hold HER freely-elected fidelity.
CLEARLY that outfit is an 'advertisement' of her allure & 'desirability' to showcase MY value TO her , ... or to motivate others to CHALLENGE... to replace me.
Youth & beauty are 'perishable' commodities, tick-tock, tick-tock
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My boyfriend would let me go out dressed like that but personally I wouldn't want to, I don't feel the need to dress sexy for anyone but him, and in generally I feel more comfortable not showing much skin. My go to looks when I go out are usually a pair of jeans or leggings with a t shirt and a jacket or cardigan, or a skirt or dress with knee high socks, at home I'm cool with just a pair of shorts and a tank top. Don't get me wrong I do have some super sexy outfits but I save those for date nights.
Thank you and your boyfriend for being wise!
i don't get why people wear this revealing clothes in public your gonna have a rough time trying to prevent people from seeing your underwear girl.. plus why dress like this in public why not only dress sexy for your man alone and make him feel special?
First off I don't think I would ever try and control what my girlfriend decided to wear. With that being said I wouldn't date someone long enough to consider my girlfriend if she wasn't aware or at least considerate enough to ask if she was unsure. Having been in the millitary and traveled to a variety of different places culturally I'm aware that some might consider this outfit offensive and cause people to feel uncomfortable. I'm from Cali and not offended by it but depending on the activity we were going to do it may or may not be ideal
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my ex boyfriend when i wore my summer dresses or jump suits out he would be like they are to reveling i dont like those i sai well i like it its not upto what i wear if u dont like it get someone new or maybe grow up stop beimg a guy that controls idiot
If we were happily married or whatever and I wanted stay 50-100 feet behind you walking downtown sidewalk by the 60 seats area along storefrontβ¦. And Video grown men 😭 and spilling 🍺 and hear this rush of low pitch ShShSh and frowns echoing and funneling down the street in between buildingsβ¦.
There isn't a chance in hell that I'm going to advise, much less decide, what my SO is going to wear. In fact, she normally tells me what she wants me to wear:
"Gray shirt, black pants, black shoes... no, not those, wear the wingtips, and a black belt, not too wide. Pick me up at 7 (which means she'll be ready at 7:30)."
My girl could wear whatever she wants. I care about how she acts when she's out. I find women who are into fashion to be hot. It shows confidence and a lack of fucks given about other people's negativity. As well as appreciation for art.
If she goes around dressed like that talking to every guy who has nothing to offer besides a hotel room then I'm gonna start to lose interest.
there is no negativity other men who see her walking around in this in public will have all sorts of fun starring at her struggling to not let people see her underwear in that outfit!
it will be like free only fans content for them but in 3D
@Starlight007 That's fine, let them look. She's mine. If I didn't trust the woman I'm with completely, I wouldn't be dating her.
If walking around in something that she feels confident in or shows a little or shows her sense of style makes her feel good, that's just who she is.
I'll date someone for their unique world view. Not for their ability to think like everyone else.
If you are comfortable with people looking at your girlfriend in revealing clothing instead of you being the only one who gets to see her in revealing clothing then oki doky! π
@Starlight007 I'm dating the woman, not the body.
your dating everything Mr potato your dating her body, brain, soul, mind etc.
@Starlight007 that's an interesting point. Why do you think I should care so much about if other people are looking at her?
Do you think a woman would only wear something like that for attention or is there something else wrong with it?
please read my comment that i posted on this topic I feel like it would answer your question.
@Starlight007 So you think that any woman would be tempted by being put in this position? What do women look for in a man that they can be stolen so easily?
basically what I was trying to say is that if a woman feels the need to wear revealing clothing in public it means she desires social validation from other people mostly men, which is problematic because if she's with you, you're the only person she should seek validation from. To answer your question most girls who wear revealing clothing are indirectly admitting that they love attention from well any man and she may or may not leave you if a guy whose better than you comes along, a guy who has better looks, more money!
she may or may not leave you to go be with a better man who got drawn to her because well he's better than you in terms of looks, more money, better car, better job, better connections stuff like that*
@Starlight007 Why would I want a woman like that? If I thought for a second that was even possible, I wouldn't be able to sleep next to that person. If she's someone who would think another man is better than I am because of how they look or how much money they make, what kind of relationship do you really have? It's not based on our minds or souls, it's based in material selfishness.
I get that these types are more common than most realise but love isn't something all women take lightly.
And just because she has a fashion sense doesn't mean that she's like that. Wanting attention from others isn't necessarily a bad thing. I've worked with and met many models and at this point, I go into the interaction expecting somebody who's very down to earth if it's a woman.
Obviously if she was out wearing tasteless, revealing stuff and talking to guys, that would be a turn off, but the dress in this picture is nice.
I mean, are you saying that every time I date someone who's in the same industry as me or someone who is into fashion I need to panic when they wear stuff like this?
A girl can have fashion sense without having to wear revealing clothing though, and wanting attention from others is alarming because usually people who want attention from other people have low self esteem, they have jealous tendencies especially if someone better looking than them comes along and sometimes they are lonely does this not sound alarming? I dm you the link of the article proving this point if you want.
it's not normal to be in a relationship with someone you claim to love but then turn around and wear things to impress other people, if you are in a relationship the only validation you should want is your own validation and your partners validation and attention that's it! if you are single the only validation you should want is your own internal validation!.
@Starlight007 @Starlight007 I agree with 90% Of what you're saying. I just don't think that it's always the case. After working with the people I've worked with and meeting and making friends with all sorts of people in the creative industry, I know that for some people it works a little different than that.
But I'll just refer back to my origional point which is, I don't care what other people think. I care if she's loyal so if she convinces me that she is, then none of that other stuff is even relevant to me.
If she needs attention, trust me, she'll show you in ways that are more concrete. Like the type of people she hangs out with or what her relationships are like or what she appreciates in things.
If she's not loyal, I'm going to pick up on that soon enough.
But to say that any woman who would wear something like this is the kind who's desperate for attention and is not trustworthy... It's sad that society puts more importance on sex in a relationship than the actual relationship itself.
I really feel like you are not getting the point that I am trying to make here and I don't know how else I can try to explain myself may be it would have been Better if i could send you a voice note, But honestly thank you for being respectful not a lot of people cannot have respectful conversations with people they disagree with so I really appreciate that you were able to do that. I respect what ever views you hold by the way even if they differ from mine! and thanks a bunch for the chat!.
I do not see anyone as a sex object by the way and i believe more in the actual relationship that on sex, I think you misunderstood me or may be i'm not making any sense I dunno, but thanks regardless!
@Starlight007 of course, likewise. I don't think you necessarily see women or anyone as a sex object. I just wanted to provoke some thought about the points we were trying to make.
Hopefully we'll talk again soon
I hear ya on the points you made there!, thanks again for the chat and I too hope that we can chat soon on someone else's post regarding something else! ππ₯
Let her? What, am I her father? I do not decide what a girlfriend/fiancée/wife wears. If what a woman wears would offend me, I would not date her and instead would date a woman who naturally dresses the way I approve.
However, what my girl wears does not matter to me. If I trust her enough not to be tempted by another man's charms then it does not matter what she wears.
I would go out on a date with my girlfriend in this outfit.
I don't control my girlfriend. She can wear whatever she wants. Having said that, I'd let her know that I think that outfit is totally unacceptable and makes her look cheap. She can choose to accept or reject my opinion, and that determines how well our relations hip is going to go.
I wouldn't wear it personally but in all cases it is not your boyfriend to give appoval for what you can wear or not.
If you like it, then wear it. If your boyfriend wants to decide what you wear then tell him it is no more how it works
The boyfriend is free to dump her based on her choices too, correct?
Cool. Thanks for not being a hypocrite. You're a nice person. Daddy approves ππ€£
@TenkRealist
It's the difference between "cannot" and "may not."
You may not kill people, but you certainly can kill people. lol
If she tells him that he may not go to the stripper club with his friends, that doesn't mean that he cannot go to the stripper club with his friends.
But in life there is always that pesky piper that demands to be paid.
There shouldn't even be the thought of the guy going to a strip club in the first place. That should be unthinkable. You don't do that in a relationship. Period.
@TenkRealist
I think it's OK if the girl is OK with it. But I wouldn't like my boyfriend to go without me. We've gone together to a few, and even with another couple. I like the just the social part of it, but the actual stripping part gets old in about five minutes. But it would be really shitty for the guy to leave her behind. Just invite her to go along. The results are like night and day.
Nah. I wouldn't go to such a trashy place. If my girl suggested we go, I'll have a new girl the next month.
I force my BDSM Submissive Victoria to wear shiit like this.
I make her wear shiit that makes her cleavage stand out.
She's 5'3 / 110 lbs and Double Ds this is her below
https://imgur.com/8CpkAgO
If my girfriend wanted to I would be fine with her wearing stuff like these
off topic but why would any woman wear this outside for any purposes besides a photoshoot or something?
that looks so uncomfortable and you can't even wear panties with it, I would be scared out of my life about doing the wrong move and ending up exposing something DX
Why the word Let?
People are living breathing creatures with their own rights and brains.
she would wear what she wanted.
Not a control freak.
Any guy who says no is obviously very controlling and has serious issues. They say no based on their own insecurities. Because they are the jealous type. Women and men are their own person. They can wear what they want
It's *your.
And I wouldn't approve of that. I couldn't stop her from wearing that, but I don't have to stay with her either. I probably wouldn't date any girl who dressed like that, anyway. She can dress like a slut in front of another man.
What do u mean by let her I dont have the ability to tell her what she can and can't wear I wouldn't be happy about the lower half of the outfit and would let her know but thats about it
If yβall canβt handle your girl dressing up and looking like a bad bitch, then donβt date a bad bitch 😅
If you trust her then you wouldnβt care what she wears when sheβs out if you know sheβs all yours.
Long or short term I'd tell her "she can wear whatever she wants, but if you still want the attention of other men when I'm done with you, I'd be surprised".
I mean, probably notβ¦because I would drag her back into the house and tackle her. i wouldnβt mind her wearing it in publicβother than the fact that I couldnβt take it off her in public.
Yes I would, if she's with me. If I'm not there I wouldn't want that. But that's because I like that shit and I'm okay with dealing with another guy if I really need to.
please read my comment that i posted on this topicπ!
My boyfriend wouldn't approve of that outfit for sure, but I hate it as well lol.
Iβm straight, but I donβt think itβs sexy at all. Sexy is best subtle with a little tease. This screams βlook at me.β
I would t want to have a say over what my girlfriend wears. But yes I would be fine with her in a cute outfits like that. Depending on the place. Hahaha
I wouldn't let you wear it in public cause I'd have that whipped off you in a jiffy and straight to bed with you! Lol. X
Why should I try and control what she wears? Only thing Iβd ask of her would be to carry pepper spray so sheβd be protected.
I didn't get a job at been clothing police so ain't got a badge to show. In otherwords it's her choice not mine.
My g/f can wear what she likes in public.. Guys can ogle her all they like.. I'm the only one who gets to touch!
Yeah, as long as it's situationally appropriate. I'm fine with women wearing whatever they want to wear, as long as it maintains a standard of decency.
Depends where we going because going to the mall or meeting with friends I wouldn´t but to the beach or pool yes.
She can wear whatever she wants, but if she wears that in public, I'm breaking up with her. I'm not humping anyone who sits on public seating areas with no underwear on, thats just gross.
That makes me very uncomfortable because I just saw some guys touch a women without permission. What if they pulled her cloths off and now she's butt naked for the world to see. I don't want that so no I would ask her for her sake to not wear it
Let her? Is she 6 years old and I'm her das? Is she my property? Imagine being a grown up and not being allowed to wear what you want to wear. What is wrong with people on GaG?
Also: *your (it's really not that hard)
I wouldnβt be with anyone who felt like they had the right to dictate what I wear
She's free to wear it, out of the relationship. Don't want someone who dresses like a hooker. Personal preference.
Thank you, you're one of the few men on here who actually makes sense! π₯
and who is wise as heck!
I'll let her make me break up with her. She's free to do things on her own now. I get a new one.
Depends a Mormon dude from Utah wouldn't allow his girlfriend to wear that lol
It wouldn't be up to me. Nobody should have to "let her" or not choose what she wants to wear.
I'm just her boyfriend not her dad. I don't tell her what to do in public
Sure, as long as she has bikini bottoms or something underneath that skirt.
It's a cute outfit.
Look I don't care as long as what she showing is mine and mine only and if not fuck out of my face😂
Let her? I don't think she would need my permission.
I just would date a women that dresses like that, let alone give her a title of girlfriend...
She has a FANTASTIC body, but itβs decision what to wear.
currently single but if I had a female partner that could pull off something like this. she could try to wear it in public but might not make it out the door. since I would likely be trying to remove it and fool around with her
If she was comfortable with it, yes. It's her body. She doesn't tell me what to wear and I don't tell her what to wear.
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Hell yeah, she'd be the hottest girl in the place, and I'd be the guy who's shoulder she's hanging on. 😁
you don't mind men staring at your girl because she's wearing revealing clothing?
@Starlight007 tbh it kinda turns me on knowing that the girl other men lust over is going home with me. If I owned a Ferrari I wouldn't want it just rusting away in the garage under a layer of tarp right? π
If she was flirting back and lapping up their attention then it could become an issue, so I guess it's a test of A) my trust in her, and B) her faithfulness to me
I don't get it though why not just let your girlfriend wear things like this in your presents alone? why is showing off her nudity a good thing? why not reserve it for you alone? you answered my question though you said showing off her nudity to you is a turn on, its sad that us us people can never appreciate what we have instead of showing it off!
@Starlight007 I never said anything about nudity
its sad that we wanna show off our partners to the world instead of being possessive of them and being able to enjoy their sexiness for ourselves!
@Starlight007 You may feel that way, but you asked for opinions and I've given you mine, I'm not really interested in justifying myself to you or anyone
no you're right you don't have to justify yourself to any body, and thanks for sharing your views with me though!
@Starlight007 You're welcome :)
She wore something like that to the beach this weekend lol. Wanted to even out her farmer's tan. It was green tho not orange.
My girlfriend can wear whatever she wants. The problem lies in the preselection. With someone who dresses like this it wouldn't be too difficult for her to be with me.
It wouldn't be my place to dictate what she can and can't wear, that's up to her, but I would like it for me alone, not for public consumption. In the end it will be her decision.
The best question should probably be how would you feel about your girlfriend wearing such clothing because you can't really do anything about it
@Vegasrunner you can dump her and date ladies who cover up more in public and only dress sexy for you alone!
@Starlight007 Personally I dont care how sexy a women I date dresses it's her choice. My point is if a guy didn't want his women to dress like that in public he needs to get rid of her and find another one.
@Vegasrunner I hear ya!
@Vegasrunner yeah i guess but personally me i cover myself so but its a pretty outfit
@Vegasrunner weβll as i said before i I wouldnβt wear that i like to dress modestly but everyone has their own choice
@Vegasrunner cool
My boyfriend would let me, but he may not feel so comfortable with me wearing it.
I would depending on where. I love red lipstick by the way.
It's a garish colour. But the design isn't too bad.
I don't really date girls who dress like that but I ain't going to tell someone what she can or can't wear
if you pick a girl who covers up because she wants to and you date her then you won't have to tell her to cover up, but i mean its not a bad thing to ask your girlfriend to cover up more if ever she does wear revealing clothing, what's bad is how you ask her but if you ask nicely and respectfully she'll listen to you that is if you're dating a proper girl!.
@Starlight007 that is pretty much the point I am trying to make. I am not saying that people should have to wear a potato sack or anything. But the thing of it is I am more into women who have morals, values, and ethics. Not just any girl I meet at a bar or club or off the streets. That really ain't my cup of tea if you know what I mean.
I mean, I think people should wear what they want (within reason) and as long as she had the same morals as me then I would not really care. I mean if we were say swimming at a pool or on the beach. That would be much different then just being out in public.
No ways I totally get what you mean!, and I agree with you I also prefer dating men with values, morals, self respect and who are not trying to get unnecessary attention from other women who aren't me!. even at the beach see in my opinion I would not wear any revealing bikinis or swim wear I know its normalized but it makes me uncomfortable and I don't like when men I'm not dating look at the exposed body, the only guy I want looking at my exposed body in a revealing swim suit or outfit is my partner that's it!.
look at my exposed body*
@Starlight007 exactly! I am the same way I don't even like going around without my shirt on. Not that I judge people who do and I don't judge someone wearing a bikini or anything or even clothes like this.
I just really am not into it... I am not into women who just want to sleep around I think there is way more to a relationship then that. I am not going to try and change someone into who I want them to be either. I want to find someone who fits my values and my beliefs and my standards and I fulfill hers too.
I totally know what you mean about someone who has morals and everything not that I am perfect. Trust me I have struggled in sin and lust and watching porn at times. But I am a Christian and a very devout one at that. I don't by no means expect someone whose perfect.
But someone who carry's herself with dignity and respect for herself and others. I mean if she has some mental things going on and she hates herself then I can have compassion for that don't get me wrong.
I just couldn't be with a woman who I don't respect and women who don't have morals and... Wear stuff for the intentions of getting sexual attention I really loose respect for her
@Starlight007 I totally get what you mean. When I am dating I like everyone pretty much. But when I fall in love with someone. That is the only woman that I want to be with. I can think a woman is beautiful but I don't feel attracted to her if that makes sense when I am with someone.
I would feel like if she is wearing revealing clothing looking for attention that she would end up cheating on me
No ways I totally understand what you are trying to say and I respect it!π―.
@Starlight007 thanks sorry I got a little long winded. Anyways you have a nice day. I just like when someone has common sense and agrees with me and does not try and argue with me or change my opinion. Isn't that always nice? lol
Thank you and I hope you have a lovely day as well, I disagree with some people on here, I think disagreements can be good to cause for one, they can help show you perspectives that differ from yours but I try super hard to disagree respectfully! But I'm not perfect sometimes I say the wrong things!. But you are right sometimes it feels good to have someone agree with you so I appreciate this interaction, thanksππ₯ !.
@Starlight007 yea you too I had a guy just block me and said I insulted his wife after he said he was cheating on her... I simply said he was a dirt bag for it to make a long argument short... I disagree with people too but sometimes people can just be... WRONG lol
Anyways you have a great day
Lol Tell me about it!, I get what you mean though I feel like I annoy some people on here by voicing my opinions but hey don't come to a website where people are allowed to practice free speech and expect to not annoy anyone! I signed up for this and I did to myself!
Thanks again for the chat Lol, You a cool person! π₯
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@Starlight007 I piss a LOT of people off myself LOL!!! LOTS!!! And anytime! you too! You are a cool person yourself. Thanks!
@Starlight007 I am fairly new to this site and just today like three people have blocked me. Most of them are just typical trolls on here though who post photos of themselves and spread garbage. Some of the people who blocked me I was actually being nice to but. Whatever
I'm new too I joined a few months ago but I was never active at all on here until 3 days ago lol, so cheers to us being newbies! yes don't let the people who are unkind or who block you and disrespectfully reject your opinions upset you at all!
@Starlight007 thanks! You're right this site has so many trolls. You rock! I love talking to people like you and people who maybe I can actually help I am fairly new myself just joined recently my profile is Whatever2929292 since I posted anonymously
I would try to convince her to throw it away and buy a black one instead.
It's exotic, depends where she's wearing it, if it's for a fancy dance party then sure, though maybe get a longer skirt.
But I don't have the right to tell her what to wear so her choice
I'd "let" my wife wear what she wanted. She can make her own choices
If my girlfriend looked like that she could wear whatever she wanted.
Yes, but my wife is older and doesn't dress like that anymore.
But it does look nice on her.
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