Why do I experience things like this?

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

I've had this thing so many times. There is a man I like him and that person likes me at first. Then this man suddenly cuts off the conversation and becomes a ghost. then it suddenly appears again, this time I don't care and it bothers me like a pervert. Although I have blocked him from many social media, he is harassing from other accounts from other places. When I give those people a chance in the first place, why don't they take that chance and why do I become valuable to that person when I treat a man like an animal? Why are men acting so weird?

[Newbeginnings]

It could be that he likes the thrill of the chase and gets bored after he knows he's caught you, like Guy13 said. Or it could be that they are talking to other women and are not that serious about you. If they don't have a good excuse for disappearing, then you are better off without them. Flakiness is a red flag. They are not worth the drama and are usually immature.

They come back because they want and miss the attention. It's good that you didn't show him any!

I have been in the same situation.

[Guy13]

People tend not to appreciate what they can ascertain easily. And, if they think they got it then sit it on back burner and make her chase him. The bottomline is you seem to be selecting boy-men. Immature and refuse to grow-up boys. stay tough and good luck with child of a man. Blessing in disguise‼️

[RuthlessAggression]

I don't understand how you could like him but then block him. That doesn't make ANY sense to me.

I'm sorry for what he's doing though

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

yes I like it at first then that person becomes a ghost and now I'm getting away from him

[RuthlessAggression]

Yes thanks for re writing what you already said without actually giving a reason for why you do it

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

Actually this is it. why would i want someone prone to ghosting again

[RuthlessAggression]

Yet you "liked him". Why block him?

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

because he didn't deserve my love

[RuthlessAggression]

But you DID

[Newbeginnings]

She liked him at first, he liked her, but he treated her badly by ghosting her after a while, so she wasn't interested when he tried to come back.

[RuthlessAggression]

@Newbeginnings That shouldn't mean she blocks him

The immature love the immature

[Anonymous]

I think it's a form of mental illness that is very widespread.