Did HE JUST ASK me to guess what color underwear he is wearing?

[Anonymous]

We were just chatting for timepass, then he asked me to guess what color night suit he is wearing..

Obviously there will be only upper and the lower clothes.

I guessed both his colors.

Then he said, one more color is left... I then pretended to not get shocked and guessed it.

Then he flattered me with some compliments.

Was he asking about his inner wear color also?

[IJhonnyI]

Yes and if he was how do you see this person clearly you don't care about him enough since you made this public 😂

[Asker]

Oh so me asking this on the internet proves I don't really love him? Good to hear that :) because I was catching feelings for him but then he did something that raised red flags.

[IJhonnyI]

And you jump too conclusions 😂good to see that, are you sure your not the red flag 😂

[IJhonnyI]

Saying because I said you didn't keep this private your telling me that I said that you didn't love him like what?🤣🤣🤣

[IJhonnyI]

I said clearly you didn't care about him enough 😒🙄

[IJhonnyI]

And by those answers you clearly don't sooo what did he do what was his red flags

[Asker]

So he only texts me at evening even though he told me he's free at daytime and he only insisted me to text him during the day, when I did, he didn't replied for 3 hours and when I asked are you busy? He said "I was not busy". Then I cut him off.

[Asker]

Then again at evenings he started to disturb me every 30 minutes expecting me to reply. Isn't it double standards regarding what he did in the afternoon?

[IJhonnyI]

Listen yea that is bullshit I wouldn't gave dealt with that if a female did it to me i would've cut her off so yes makes sense on your part

[Asker]

Yeah at night he was so close, we had a good chat and even in morning we wished each other good day, then HE ONLY asked me in afternoon "are you free?" Then I also asked him the same, then he replied me at evening saying "I was not busy" ... then I said ok, then later he said let's talk at night and then that's when I cut him off, then he dropped 5 sad messages that how he's waiting for my text.

[IJhonnyI]

Umm I don't know what to say personally I'm done even coming near putting myself in that situation meaning I fully would avoid coming near a situation that energy draining 😂

[Asker]

True, it hurt, I still miss him but it's for the good in the long term. I'm sure he won't hesitate to repeat the cycle if another cute chick followed him.

[IJhonnyI]

Trust me I understand that, it's okay I've also moved on with my ex female, does have me thinking sometimes but for me it's better in the long run would've been mentally drained by now if I kept putting up with all the bullshit any longer, it's way past over now, now I've been doing okay way better then all that game playing and mind games

[Asker]

Exactly I hate when people on one day show you full attention but during other times they pretend to be busy. They probably were talking to someone else.

[IJhonnyI]

Mine was a really fucked up situation, I'm not even gonna talk about it, but yes what you were saying I agree

[Asker]

Last question, do people like these cheat on you behind your backs and are opportunists when someone better or even new comes along?

[IJhonnyI]

People like who then I can answer your question?

[Asker]

Like your ex female you dealt with and the kind of guy I just told you about here.

[IJhonnyI]

Listen if your guy is anything like my ex female then you better get out of there cause my situation was not a good one it was mental abuse

[Asker]

Sure, he even lied to me that he is sad, alone, emotional and have no real friends but he hided a story from me wishing his best friend happy birthday on instagram. He asked me what kinda guys I like, I mentioned a few traits, then he acted exactly like that but then pretends to be busy during the day and suddenly misses me from evening.

[Asker]

What you think? He sounds like a player/cheater.

[IJhonnyI]

Kinda dealing with something you can directly message me if you want up too you

[RuthlessAggression]

Talking for timepass?

[Asker]

Omg SO ACCURATE

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a weirdo! lol He probably likes you and was attempting to make it sexual, or at least get you thinking that way. Or he's just weird? lol

[Shark_61695]

It should be the same as his tie.

[spartan55]

He who?

[Asker]

Someone I chat with

[Honesttguy]

Who knows

[Anonymous]

Maybe.