He said he loved me very much but now he ghosted me, even my bff told him to contact me cause I am hurted, he did not. Why?

[Deimy]

[Hürrem]

Because he does not love you very much. His words saying he loves you does not coincide of what he is showing you. He does not care about your feelings at all.
Or maybe he is confused and unsure about his feelings to you now compared to the day when he said he loves you.
Just move on even it is not easy and do not trust a man that easily says "i love you". Trust more of his actions than words and let your instincts guide you.

[Deimy]

Hello, just more information: Almost 2 weeks. Yesterday he watched one of my stories. We dated in the same country for 3 months, he was very caring and promised that even if we won' t work out in long distance we will stay close friends and important for each other, just 2-3 weeks ago he said he really wants to see me and planned to visit me in my country. However, after this dialogue , some days later I said that I really love him and we cab fix us but his last message was that he was switching off and now is totally sentimentally off. However it was hard to understand the message because all words were out of place... it was strange.. he always writes in perfect English

[Hürrem]

What does switching off means? Maybe he lost his hope as maybe its not easy for him to go to your country? And if it is easy, then there's no point of delaying or switching off of seeing each other? He said if won't work out you stay close friends meanwhile close friends means having good communication or at least clear message enough not to leave you hanging.

[sheikalana]

If he doesn't want to talk to you nothing or no one can change his mind. Leave him alone and carry on with your life.

[Deimy]

Hello:) just more information: Almost 2 weeks. Yesterday he watched one of my stories. We dated in the same country for 3 months, he was very caring and promised that even if we won' t work out in long distance we will stay close friends and important for each other, just 2-3 weeks ago he said he really wants to see me and planned to visit me in my country. However, after this dialogue , some days later I said that I really love him and we cab fix us but his last message was that he was switching off and now is totally sentimentally off. However it was hard to understand the message because all words were out of place... it was strange.. he always writes in perfect English

[sheikalana]

Maybe he's going through some tough times. Give him time and space. If he really likes he will eventually reach out but in the mean time focus on yourself, respect and believe what he said the last time he texted you.

[Deimy]

Thank you , I think like that ❤

[SeekingVirginWife]

This happens when you get in a relationship with non-virgins.

[RuthlessAggression]

Ghosted? How long's it been?

[Deimy]

Almost 2 weeks. Yesterday he watched one of my stories. We dated in the same country for 3 months, he was very caring and promised that even if we won' t work out in long distance we will stay close friends and important for each other, just 2-3 weeks ago he said he really wants to see me and planned to visit me in my country. However, after this dialogue , some days later I said that I really love him and we cab fix us but his last message was that he was switching off and now is totally sentimentally off. However it was hard to understand the message because all words were out of place... it was strange.. he always writes in perfect English

[RuthlessAggression]

It sounds like he's not wanting to talk or be with you right now. Leave it alone