Guys: was he trying to make me jealous?

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So there is this guy that I see everyday at the gym, he would keep staring at me, looking my way for weeks. One day I tried greeting him but he turn away, he avoided me, since then he pretends not to look at me while he talked to his friends but continue to looking at me. Anyway, I stopped trying to get near him, I turn away every time I would catch him looking at me. Then yesterday, a girl came to talk to him. He was smiling nervously looking my way, at some point he was blushing and the girl seemed very interested. The thing is during all that time, he kept smiling nervously and looking my way, I just pretended not to see or hear anything. It’s really confusing, I don't know, was he trying to make me jealous?

Answer 1

Nawlins34 | 137 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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1.) It doesn't matter
2.) You're playing yourself more than he is

"One day I tried greeting him but he turn away, he avoided me, " - I want you to focus on this and nothing more. THIS is all you need to know.

Stop looking and focusing on whether or not HE'S looking - if he wants more, he'll approach you, if he doesn't, he's confirming what you already know.

At best, he's indecisive and not assertive. Is that attractive to you? (Rhetorical question)

Go there for the reason you're paying (working out) and be on your way.

Be safe and good luck.

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Answer 2

Whatever2929292 | 268 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

Leave him be. If he was ignoring you then he is either playing games with you or does not want you around him. Just please leave him alone. If he likes you he will come around.

If someone flat out ignores you unless there is a emergency or something... LEAVE THEM ALONE!!! JUST LEAVE THEM BE!

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Answer 3

Anonymous

To see him keep looking at you, you are looking at him just as much. You can make excuses or deny it, maybe you haven’t even noticed it, but unless you have additional eyes in your head, then there’s no other way to know he is looking so much. All of this to say, I don’t think this is an effort to make you jealous — men don’t play those silly mind games that we think they do. He is simply noticing you, noticing him, having a sort of “eye tag” thing going on and wondering why he has your attention just as much as you’re wondering the same about him.

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4 d
You’re right, but the only reason why I noticed him was because he kept looking at me and I didn’t know why. I made eye contact with him and I even tried approaching him but he ignored and avoided me. Now, I just avoid looking at him. When the incident with this girl happened, we were in the yoga room where there’s lots mirrors so I saw him looking even if I avoided looking. 🤷🏻‍♀️
Opinion Owner

4 d
How did that instant of trying to approach him play out? Because it’s quite possible you could’ve misconstrued his actions for avoidance, and now there’s this weird rift between you two..

Answer 4

Asker

You’re right, but the only reason why I noticed him was because he kept looking at me and I didn’t know why. I made eye contact with him and I even tried approaching him but he ignored and avoided me. Now, I just avoid looking at him. When the incident with this girl happened, we were in the yoga room where there’s lots mirrors so I saw him looking even if I avoided looking. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

How did that instant of trying to approach him play out? Because it’s quite possible you could’ve misconstrued his actions for avoidance, and now there’s this weird rift between you two..

Answer 6

Anonymous

I don’t think so, especially if he turned away after you try to greet him and he was blushing while talking to that other girl.

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Answer 7

Waldoe | 939 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

YOU... are obsessing about him, he thinks you're crazy and is worried what you will de next, that's why he "keeps an eye" on you... you sound like a Psycho... STOP looking at him and let him live his Life...

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3 d
Lol u r with a hoe looking girl and u wearing a thong in your profile picture and I’m the psycho! Get outta here psycho grandpa!

Answer 8

Asker

Lol u r with a hoe looking girl and u wearing a thong in your profile picture and I’m the psycho! Get outta here psycho grandpa!

Answer 9

PatriceONeal

Xper 5

If I didn't see the 30-35 in your profile I'd think this was written by a highschool girl.

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3 d
Yeah, I’m 32 and I have doubts and insecurities like everyone else.
PatriceONeal

3 d
Everyone else doesn't obsess over strangers like that. You're 32 lol
Asker

3 d
I’m not obsessed, I’m asking if this guy has any interest because if anything, he was the one staring at me for weeks without me looking his way. So yes I’m 32 doubtful about one stranger. 😊
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PatriceONeal

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You just sensed he was staring with your womens intuition?
PatriceONeal

3 d
He's probably thinking, *whys this girl staring at me?*

Answer 10

Asker

Yeah, I’m 32 and I have doubts and insecurities like everyone else.

Answer 11

PatriceONeal

Everyone else doesn't obsess over strangers like that. You're 32 lol

Answer 12

Asker

I’m not obsessed, I’m asking if this guy has any interest because if anything, he was the one staring at me for weeks without me looking his way. So yes I’m 32 doubtful about one stranger. 😊

Answer 13

PatriceONeal

You just sensed he was staring with your womens intuition?

Answer 14

PatriceONeal

He's probably thinking, *whys this girl staring at me?*

Answer 15

scooogy | 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

If the girl wasn't an actress, the answer is no.

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Answer 16

Anonymous

Would you like to play with his pee pee?

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Answer 17

spartan55 | 22.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

No, don't think so.

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