Guys: do you get offended if a woman asks if you’re gay? (Page 3)

[Anonymous]

The ones that are insecure and overreact about it it are for sure on the down low but would rather “fit in “ the with their guy friends and be overly toxic with women because of their own frustrations. That’s my take on it from what I’ve seen. They’re homophobes because they’re insecure deep down.

[jhl_x]

No, but it might suggest stuff about how I am or how I act, and about how people perceive that. In the times this happened to me, it was after learning about my lack of experience with women in my 20s, so apparently it's all that matters.

[SimpleGuy95]

Yes because it would make me feel singled out especially if I like her I would take as a sign that she considers me not interesting for dating.
I therefore understand why he´s insulted because it seems like you think he´s not a man for a woman.

[JustinTheGreat]

I’ve never gotten offended when people ask about my sexuality, then again I’m a gay man so its something I’m used to. A lot of straight dudes are just insecure about their sexuality and masculinity so they take it super personally

[Chris____]

You are not right. A question like that from a female would mean she would be questioning my masculinity. I'm an ex US Navy specialized warfare guy and I do not lack confidence.

[JustinTheGreat]

@Chris____ so What I’m getting from this is that you’re insecure about your masculinity lol

[yofuknutz]

Many men are on the DOWN LOW these days so U have 2 ASK that? if U don't want HIV, hep B/C/D, syphilis pumped into your snatch or even ass, but ask with MORE class next time, ok?

[Kaneki05]

No because you wouldn't know if ya don't ask. If anything I may take it as compliment. Since I don't try to please the idea of whatever a so called "Real Man" is.

[invalid1]

Not at all, before this was normalised.
Gay is no longer an insult. It also made things better. You gay? No!
If anything in my behaviour sent this notion, then it's your perception, calibrate your gaydar.

[MCheetah]

Yeah I would be. That's what b*tchy women do to insult someone. And back in the day, if a guy said that to another guy, those are fighting words.

[spartan55]

Because it's offensive? Are you really that clueless?

[lightbulb27]

no, it's just a sign he needs to look at himself and grow emotionally, be clear about his intentions. women are confused, so that's not their problem.

[Whatever2929292]

Yea that is not a question you should be asking people. Super weird. In fact that is a situation that you could have stepped into

[Texaskid1]

Not a good question to ask at work.
The guy might get offended and anyways one should not date people at work. If a woman asks such a question it could be that she is into him.

[ronaldo75]

Yes because women tend to think men are gay for really stupid ass reasons. Im 100% straight and I've had female co workers ask if Im gay because I dress well. Who the fuck told you all that any man who dresses well is gay?

[fiveinthemorning]

No because it’s not true. I don’t do wieners & I don’t pack fudge.


Plus being gay is cool now, so that’d be a plus 😏🤘🏽

[anon1903]

Because men think gay men can't be masculine, and the biggest insult to a 4yo is being called a girl. Most straight men are homophobic that way.

[John_Doesnt]

Nope, I just assume the person is not very observant. If you can't see that I'm constantly glancing at cleavage and looking at girl's booty then that's your problem.

[imfreeze95]

Yes, if you accuse of someone of something they are not they will get pi$$ed off.

Men tend to get especially angry if their sexuality is questioned.

[Chris____]

You are so right. I would be pretty darn pissed off and I would let her know it.

[Avicenna]

I’d imagine it’s because you’re implicitly questioning his masculinity, but it’s rude to ask anyway.

[Avicenna]

Also the yone if the questioning was very offensive

[bean2k21]

I take it to mean "Hey, you dress well and have excellent taste in interior design." It doesn't really offend me until she refuses to do anal.

[Texasgal95]

I think just because a guy isn’t very social with women doesn’t always mean they are gay