Over the past few weeks he has not called or text me as much as before, and sometimes not at all. It takes him forever to reply but I just patiently wait. When he finally replies its a short reply at the end of the day. I did express that i felt neglected a couple of times, but he said that men need space and alone time, and that he’s stressed from work. He also expressed that everything can not go my way. I respect him, but I just can’t help but to feel neglected. It hurts even more because I see him interacting and giving attention to others on social media. I never experienced this before and need advice. Should I just walk away?
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I ended things and he called me stupid and a coward but i feel relieved to move forward
i had a dom like that for about 3 weeks i went to his house actually his man cave in the basement... he asked that i wear short dresses with heels then we went to his basement to watch sports each time... he'd start off rubbing my thigh then ask me to get on my knees to give him head... i'd give him his blowjob but after he blew his load he asked me to gently kiss his cock and lick it until he got hard again and i'd give him another blowjob... well i thought he'd be happy with me coming over and even though he was 30 years older than me he got a younger girl... sure i was hurt about that.
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im thinking maybe sometimes rejection is a blessing in disguise i guess but no more deserves that
I don't, and I'm a man, so thats already false as a standard.
Also when stressed out, an SO is supposed to be who you turn to in order to de-stress.
If the idea of being around his SO when he is stressed is making his stress worse, that means being around you in general stresses him out, and thats a HUGE red flag.
The fact that he interacts with others while stressed, but not you, all but verifies this.
First thing I'd want after a shitty day is to be with someone I enjoyed spending time with.
It sounds like you two aren't compatible.
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thank you so much for this and when i tried breaking it off last week he made me feel bad for leaving hom during his hard times which was confusing but no more im leaving it alone for good
The bulk of his time is being spent elsewhere and probably on someone else. Breaking in something new is "work" and can certainly both stress and double one's workload. There's no way to know without addressing it directly. You will have to decide this independently especially given the dynamics within you two's relationship. Best and i hope it all works out as you wish it too.
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yes i thought it was serious he said he wanted to be serious but if he has met someone else he should just be happy i will get over it eventually
He’s probably pushing away because it started to feel like a relationship and that’s not what he is aiming for. I mean you are so upset that he isn’t texting that often. That’s a huge sign that it seems like you two weren’t on the same page about what kind of situation it was going to pan out to be
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yes that makes sense i guess i got used to that attention in the beginning but i won't force myself on anyone thank you for your feedback
@asker definitely don’t force yourself onto anyone! Know your worth. If he was an actual Dom, he would lead and let you know that he wasn’t looking for anything serious and just sex. I was a sub to a dom for sometime and I knew what it was because he was a true dom and was honest about what was going on between us
That’s what I’m here for lol but definitely let it be. He may be using the Dom crutch as a way to get what he wants without having to be honest because he “assumed” you would know what it is
You never know, maybe he's just going through some crap and need some time alone. I'm just going off the information you've given. Who knows maybe he's trying to teach you a lesson, since he's your daddy
Obviously, you have displeased him in some significant way. I don't understand why he'd leave you hanging like this though. It's not really being a good Dom. Likely, he's just trying to sort out why he's feeling like this himself, and figure out how to proceed. Hang in there. If it's a good relationship, it'll eventually right itself.
He doesn’t really sound like a dom the more you add details. Does he have other subs and how often did you two have sex? Tbh I’m wondering if he used you in a way and now is looking online for others
yeah maybe he did use me and well i told him that i was apart of the lifestyle and he claimed he was too and seemed very experienced with it but i could just be naive and we had sex numerous times
As you know being a sub there are good doms and bad doms. You may have had good doms before and I think you can tell he’s not stepping up and if he hasn’t even seen you in weeks after lots of sex that’s not him fulfilling his responsibilities. I’m wondering how much longer will you wait?
Feel free to follow me and let me know how it turns out. I mean we’re you being too clingy? Like that’s enough for him to pull back but not for 3 weeks yk
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