I confess my feelings to a guy and he hasn't yet , what could it mean?

[Anonymous]

Well he likes to be myterious since always and I know he is very attracted to me but I don't know if he feels something strong like me , it's been 5 months since we been talking daily , it's not like hey how are you , it's always a chat about an interesting conversation so it's daily interesting , and we don't answer right in the moment always , I like we are so similar

[kylee2437]

If someone can’t be direct to you even after 5 months of talking, that’s a huge red flag and maybe you should put your feelings aside to logically think about this: a man that doesn’t know what to think about you after 5 months is simply wasting your time.

[Asker]

Well maybe he likes to keep the mystery (? We haven't seen each other yet, I told him through text , and I thought well maybe it'd be more romantic if he told me face to face , maybe he won't tell me tho , maybe u right

[kylee2437]

@asker being mysterious gets old. You have given him 5 months of your time. There’s no reason why he can’t open up to you unless if he simply doesn’t want to because he’s not serious about you. You are trying to justify a hue red flag instead of coming to terms that his indirect behavior is a turn off

[Asker]

Well we haven't seen each other in person yet

[FilmGuy93]

He might not think he needs to say it explicitly to you, or maybe he's just waiting until he meets you in person.

[spartan55]

Have you met him in person?

[Asker]

Not yet , I had a big problem but now I will can

[spartan55]

Then you really don't know him, you can pretend you do, but you don't. 'Had a big problem'... Oooookay...

[Asker]

Well but the feeling is there anyway and I know that if I see him I'll still feel the same z it's been 5 months , we talked almost like everyday , I just felt I had to say it I'm bad at keeping secrets so long , I think he may repress his feelings and deny them because we met on the internet , so he is probably unsure and maybe meeting in person will be another thing that will make him confirm more or not maybe he won't feel the same , I hope I'm lucky

[spartan55]

Are you really 25?

[Asker]

I'm 26

[spartan55]

Have you ever been in a relationship?

[Asker]

Yes , twice

[spartan55]

Huh... interesting

[Asker]

Why do u think he hasn't said anything about his feelings?