Why do I not do that well online but girls really fancy me?

[Anonymous]

Like if I go out I get the impression that girls really fancy me before I’ve even spoken to them. Yet online I’m not swarmed by girls. I dress nice and am confident but not like super loud or anything.

Online I feel ugly in real life I feel like a 10. Wtf?

It’s all about looks at the end of the day

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Also another thing. I don’t speak to girls. I’ve never really gone up to a girl and spoken to them. It’s extremely rare that I meet a really nice girl.

[Jacobbbb]

Well if we don't know what you look like then it's hard to judge. Put up something nice as a pfp or something, also just be more confident all around. If you got the looks to boast then show it off. My honest advice

[Birdlegs]

Are you sure you’re confident? Cuz you’re asking strangers, anonymously, why girls don’t like you.

[Asker]

What’s anonymous gotta do with it?

[Birdlegs]

A confident person asking this would show their picture that way we can judge you and give an accurate answer

[Asker]

I don’t even have my picture on here. I’m a private person. Don’t make assumptions

[D_Bone_Steak]

Online is just very surface level. Some people don't have that appeal.

[F3nr1r]

It sounds like girls are going for your looks but not your personality 🤔 I could be wrong tho

[CloudMassacre]

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