Why would a man change from flirting, checking you out to suddenly speaking over you in a group conversation?

[Anonymous]

And referring to you as one of the fellas and pursuing other women? Is it a lack of respect to cut someone off when they are speaking and when it’s addressed acting like you don’t care that it’s rude?

[Guy13]

It could be that he first had an interest in you. It could also be that he was trying to control or dominate you in anyway possible. Some do that by flirting and if that fails moves them into friend group. In that setting they can be loud, obnoxious, and control your degree of interaction. I think the answer lies in your position at the office. New hire and position please? This guys position please? Details required...

[Asker]

It’s not an office. It’s a social group.

[Guy13]

What kind of Social Group?-that would have been good to know. Then all is fair in love and war. Friends do that all the time. You have to fight for your place within the pack. From my experience, girls are worse with the back stabbing and behind the back stuff.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

He's a man.

Men often don't see interrupting or talking over women to be a problem.

I suggest moving on from him. Him talking over you in group conversation is the real him. Him flirting and checking you out (🤮) is him trying to get laid.

He won't give a shit about you, your thoughts, your feelings, or what you have to say.

There's no clearer indication of a poorly behaved boor than when he talks over women.

[Avicenna]

People lose interest sometimes for the most minute reasons. Maybe he didn't get the reaction he sought.