The man I’m talking to said he needs me in his life. Is this bad?

[Anonymous]

He told me he woke up in a little bit of a mood today. He said he was feeling down in the dumps. I told him I was too and he said he missed me and wishes he could hug me. He then told me he needs me in his life and followed that up with how he wants me there with him in person. We live further apart and don’t see each other much but talk everyday. He recently just mentioned how one day he hopes that we would no longer be living far apart. Thoughts?

[DEXTER_LIVES]

Well, it sounds like he's a clingy one like me who wants to live together with women and become attached to one another. Whether it's good or bad depends on how you feel about him and if you want the same thing.

[FilmGuy93]

Why would that EVER be bad?

[Asker]

My friend said its sounds like he needs me for selfish reasons and not because he wants me. So I wanted to ask someone else’s opinion.

[FilmGuy93]

Gotcha... I don't think anything he said sounds selfish, but I'm also only responding to the information you've included online. I think you're probably good =)