Doing this for a discussion be open and honest. Do you guys ever look at the new girl you’re talking to maybe she’s larger than your ex and go “yea she’s cute but my exes body was way hotter” could be look too so you ever compare the new girl to your ex 🤔
For most men, I'm not saying they NEVER do it, but they RARELY do it. A few guys are entitled assholes, and they do this openly and frequently (and loudly), but while you'll notice these guys more, they aren't the majority.
The facts are that our eyes still work. If Girl A is hotter than Girl B, and we're now dating Girl B, the fact that Girl A is hotter doesn't change, does it? And it's not the guy's fault that Girl A is hotter, is it? If you are Girl B in this situation, don't be stupid enough to ask the guy if Girl A was hotter, because you know damn well that she was, and either the man tells you the truth - which you can't handle - or he lies to you, and you know he's lying. He loses either way, in a situation he had no control over. That's fucked up!
But this is also true: guys are FAR more realistic and grounded (as a rule - there are certainly a few exceptions) than most women give us credit for. Sure, Girl B isn't as hot as Girl A. The guy knew that the first time he saw Girl B. If he's still pursuing Girl B, it's because he doesn't care. He understands that not everyone is going to be equally hot with everyone else, and he doesn't care. He understands that relationships are about more than the girl's level of hotness. And most guys know that they aren't getting a Victoria's Secret Angel - and if they were lucky enough to find a girl who looked even remotely like one, and things didn't work out with her, they don't expect the next girl to be that hot just because the last one was. We know life doesn't work that way.
If a guy is approaching you for a relationship, it means he's satisfied with your looks. He's accepted you as you are, at least physically. That's all you really need to care about.
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Absolutely, yes guys do this. And if you want them to be honest and not lie to you then don't ever ask them about it or bring it up, because if they are honest and they will tell you the truth and you could get your feelings hurt. Mostly likely they would not tell you the truth because no guy could be that stupid.
But honestly even though we guys do, do this I would not let it get in your head. I mean there is a reason why she is the ex- girl friend to begin with, right? Looks are important but they are not everything. I am currently dating a women who is not the most attractive women I ever dated. But she is super cool, chill and laid back. I enjoy being around her and with her and she is probably the closest to a prefect 10/10 I have ever dated. Because she is super fun and I really like her. Plus, this women really throws down and is a blast between the sheets. So she really owns her looks and personality.
I have dated women with better bodies and prettier faces, but they were no more and probably less sexy to me then this women is to me right now. When I was young, dumb and full of cum I would of probably screwed this relationship up... but I am older and wiser now.
My future boyfriend has nothing to worry about cause' my score is zero
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Kind of... I don't think of any of my exes or gfs as better or hotter than the others. Sometimes there's a specific feature that I especially liked that I might take note of, but the comparison doesn't ever really cross my mind.
The last two women i was with were very different. I'm sure I noticed that one was a short brown woman with a big butt and medium sized boobs, and the other was a taller White woman with big natural breasts and smaller butt. Beyond acknowledging the obvious difference in my mind I never thought any further about it. I tend to get attached to whomever I'm currently with, I'm loyal to them, and my ex disappears from my thoughts usually.
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I'm sure that some guys do, but it's not something I've ever done.
I generally focus more on what I like about my new girl, and don't think about my ex. Rather than thinking, "Well my ex had bigger boobs," I tend to think more along the lines of, "Damn, I really love her (new girl) ass!"
Fuck no. The dude who said yes men absolutely do this is full of shit. Not all men do that. I don’t. I’m not just saying that to score brownie points w you the way some douche bags do on this site. Some men may do it I don’t doubt that, but not every dude does. If that’s what we wanted I’d just go after it.
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If a guy don't really care about his girl sure the same way sime women compare the dick size of partners
there is so much time between them that I no longer remember my exes body by the time I find a new girlfriend.
i’m sure some do. and other might think, she isn’t my ex, so who cares.
Yes, same as girls compare their guys bodies
Yes.
No, I never do that
Yes. 🤷♂️
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