Should you expose a guy who tried to hook up with you before going back to his ex?

[Anonymous]

I had coffee with a guy and we never did anything, but I knew he wanted to take things further because he talked about coming over to my house. I dodged this question two times given I didn’t even know him enough time to do that. He would also gift me books and tell me he wanted to go on a holiday. However, this potential relationship fizzled out pretty fast as we got in a fight and stopped talking. I figured not very shortly after he was very official with his ex. I thought the timing was a bit strange. I don’t think they were even completely broken up when he was spending time with me. Do I tell her or just leave it?

[MystiKaL]

Leave it.

The key is that was his ex at the time, she is no longer his ex.

You don't want anything, he is now in a relationship. If you wanted something to happen then it could have happened at the time when you met him. But you chose not, he is moving on, so you should too. Otherwise, you will come across the bunny boiler here if you say something, which is not what you want.

[spartan55]

In other words, you really don't know what was going on between them at the time, but you think you should stick you nose in anyway... yeah great idea.

[Asker]

It doesn’t seem genuine to me and I don’t think she knows about it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[spartan55]

So what? Not your business.

[Asker]

Yeah. Not like I’m looking to gain anything out of this. I just don’t think he’s being honest. But if she’s fine with that good for them I guess

[boggboss]

Do what u want to be honest

[Asker]

If I do it, I might look crazy but If I don’t, she might never know about it

[boggboss]

Yes u might look crazy wouldn't be hard to make u out to be jelouse

[Asker]

I suppose so unless I used a throwaway account but that might be traced too

[boggboss]

Lol using a throw away account is somthing a crazy jelose women would do lol why would anyone believe that

[Asker]

Entertainment.

[boggboss]

Are u just bored and looking to cause drama? Or actually upset he got with her?

[Asker]

I’m concerned that he tried to cheat on her with me

[boggboss]

So either tell her or don't lol but telling her from a burner account will just look shadey like someone is causing drama

[Asker]

Lmao

[boggboss]

I take it your just trolling fair enough

[Asker]

It was an idea. But I don’t really know his girlfriend so I don’t think I’m going to go through with it. It will likely only give them an ego boost

[boggboss]

Fair enough