Do you think a guy likes me if he waited with a very drunk me to get a taxi in the rain for 2 hours?

[anonbrunette99]

He did pay but he asked for the money the next day. He also texted my mom from my phone to make sure it was the correct address and to keep her posted. I thought he was cute but he kept refusing to kiss me as I was too drunk and I was getting upset about it and questioning it but others said it was a good thing he wouldn’t kiss me etc

[Mark987]

He is a good man. Asking for the money was a bit petty though. I have been in this scenario so many times, where I refused to do anything physical with the woman, and made sure she got home okay, There is a lot of dirty men out there

[anonbrunette99]

I mean it’s possible he needed the money or someone said to him he was too nice to me and should request it back. Is it possible he likes me, I did indicate asking him out but he has been taking a long time to respond but I believe he wouldn’t have waited from 2am till 4am and follow up texted me afterward and communicated with my mum through my phone if he wasn’t at least a little bit attracted to me

[Mark987]

Ya I think he might like you by his implications... maybe he got turned off by what happened that night. He did call your mom, which is a huge thing.

[moosesixty]

No he didn't need the money because I have needed money before and I've just borrowed it from someone else so it's not about the money he's gay

[moosesixty]

It's very possible he didn't find you attractive but even then I'd still hit it

[anonbrunette99]

@moosesixty do you know what I look like? Just curious

[moosesixty]

No but when your heterosexual you usually don't care

[moosesixty]

Just putting that out there

[moosesixty]

Should you choose to show me what you look like I could be persuaded to tell you all sorts of things that would make you feel good about yourself because in the end I generally have one goal that's you and me and the naked tango

[moosesixty]

And I have the dance choreographed to the letter,,😘

[anonbrunette99]

@moosesixty I don’t think a straight man would wait with me outside from 2am till 4am with me asking and asking to kiss him without kissing me or touching me and to pay for me ride not knowing if he would get the money back if he wasn’t attracted to me he would’ve probably have just left me some security and dipped

[moosesixty]

Listen I'm not telling you my opinions are fact I'm simply giving you the perspective of every guy you've ever been w and called a total asshole after it was over or even before

[Anonymous]

Ugh. Drunk women are so off putting. It honestly just sounds like he was being a gentleman looking out for the safety of some drunk bird, not expressing any interest or attraction to you.

[moosesixty]

Doing drunk when were probably the only reason you've ever gotten laid

[moosesixty]

Dude*

[moosesixty]

Women**

[Guy13]

Like yes... and we all know you are bragging ;-)

[anonbrunette99]

You think he likes me? I thought maybe he was just trying to do a good thing. ohhh i’m not bragging at all

[Guy13]

I am teasing about the bragging ;-) No offense but 50 years ago they may have stood out in the rain for "Good Deed" but I doubt it this day. He definitely likes you. Make sure he knows you will not turn him down if he asks you out...

[anonbrunette99]

Should I tell him “I still think you’re pretty cute. Would you be down to meet a sober me?” Or just leave it? He did decline kissing me but the fact he waited despite there being staff / a security man at the taxi area seems he likes me but he did say he was tipsy himself. I guess if he didn’t he would’ve left me at the taxi line knowing it had a guard

[anonbrunette99]

I still think you’re pretty cute, not sure to which extent I embarrassed myself, but the worst you can say is no.. would you perhaps be down to meet a sober me?

I said this

[Guy13]

What you absolutely do not degrade yourself in front of him. You are establishing a pattern of how you will be treated by him.

Let’s get together but I want you to select something that does not involve alcohol…Deal…Deal.

[anonbrunette99]

So what I said was wrong

[Guy13]

Reread your communications please. You said "should say", I replied back what to say.

You NEVER suggest you are a drunkard who can't handle her liquor UNLESS you want to be treated that way. You are giving him okay to mistreat you. You need to understand Words matter. It will happen unconsciously if you set the tone.

[anonbrunette99]

I said what you told me to say but when he met me I was a drunkard that couldn’t handle their liquor but I guess he didn’t wait with me from 2am till 4:30am and text me to follow up afterward and pay it not knowing if he would ever get it back for nothing he must’ve at least liked me a little bit. We’ll see what he says.

[Guy13]

He definitely likes you 🎉🎉🎉but please be careful with your words.
I don’t mean to be rude or “talking down” but please never say “sober you”…. implies 50% drunk which affects reputation.

I know what you mean and it’s funny/silly to us BUT boys are making visual images of your person…. and from that image assign Value and choose how they will treat from that Value rating. I hope you understand I’m not trying to be hurtful 🙂

[Andres77]

He was concerned about you getting home safe and wasn’t going to take advantage of you

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

You'd have to see if he would do it for any other girl

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you were ready to go with this guy, huh?

[moosesixty]

He's so very clearly gay

[anonbrunette99]

What makes it so obvious

[moosesixty]

98 percent of guys think about pussy too often to let the smallest opportunity slip between their fingertips the other 2 percent are gay like the guy you were talking about

[anonbrunette99]

But I was extremely drunk so maybe he just has normal but I guess to not even kiss me when I was asking and asking was probably a bit rare

[anonbrunette99]

Morals*

[moosesixty]

Listen I'm not gonna the cold s*** like all the rest of these losers I'm telling you these dudes are queer because I would have hit it I don't care how drunk you are and just like every other guy who's ever been an a****** to you would also

[anonbrunette99]

Yeah cause most guys would’ve at least followed up the next day to see if I was still game. Maybe he is gay

[moosesixty]

Sugarcoat shiT*

[moosesixty]

F*** that dude anyway I need a date someone like me or actually you need to date me

[moosesixty]

Cuz I'll still wait 2 hours in the rain with you especially if I know I'm going to get some p****

[moosesixty]

By the way that quote was supposed to say f*** that dude anyway you need to date someone like me or actually you need to just date me stupid Google voice is messing up my texts