I’m 22F and I’m talking to a 23M he reaches out to me and initiates always conversation with a good morning beautiful text and whatever. We will have a little small talk and boom I don’t hear from him for the rest of the day. He legit takes forever to respond it’s been 11hrs now and I’m like? But then he has the nerve to text again with a good morning beautiful text. This has been the longest he’s went without texting me usually he would take 5 hrs which is still a lot. My thing is why is he taking so long to reply, is he just not interested? If he’s not interested why does he keep texting me like I don’t understand why you initiate conversation constantly if you are a shitty responder 😏 what do y’all think? Does he like me, does he have a busy schedule, but 11 hrs is still so much time. What should I do? I like this guy but man it irritates me, like if you’re busy just let me know that. He had told me in the beginning of when we first met that he hates being on the whole the whole day but then for me it’s like why not just ask me on a date and we keep things formal. Why flirt with me? I’m so confused
You two need to discuss this between yourselves. Just ask him what the problem is and if he feels the same way as you do. If no, you both should move on and you shouldn't waste your time on him waiting for his replies
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I don’t know enough to say. Does he just ignore what you said previously when he sends the good morning text? I will say this: If I’m interested in a girl I make it pretty obvious and invite her out on a date if want to get to know her. I wouldn’t want to get stuck just texting.
How about talk to him about it. Directly talking to someone and getting an explanation from them directly instead of just downright assuming, gives you better results. Tell him that you enjoy convo here and there.
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Why does he have to be the older one in the relationship. Why? WHY, I DO NOT FUCKING GET IT
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