I texted him at 12 am the Monday morning he didn’t reply I called him around 9 Tuesday night to see what’s wrong he didn’t answer but texted this now it’s Wednesday have heard From him at all today it’s going on Thursday now in a couple of hours it’ll be 12 I think this is just an excuse
I think he is letting you go “kindly” he is trying not to hurt you. Or ghost you. Because he still respects you. But I really don’t think he is into you or you being a priority. His message clearly states what’s his priority. You can read it carefully without your emotions involved . I think it’s an excuse. Love is simply a feeling of communicating easily and understanding easily. That’s why it grows daily because you are watering it with communication and understating constantly. Such a mess when causes say “oh I’m sexual attracted to him / her. That’s why I married them” I can be sexual attractive but if I tell a guy I like hey you suck your mother is a creep I don’t think he will find me sexually attractive anymore. In a way men or women who say that don’t realize it but it’s something that the men or women said that caught your attention…. By communicating. Well back to your qs communication is missing… so just cancel him lol
I think so to because Before he said he was busy I was going over even when he had to work he came to get me and he was texting checking up on me at work and after work I had to be at home at 6 he had to be at work at 8 but he got up early to make sure I made it home in time now he’s busy to text back or call or to let me know he’s busy it’s just the communication for me he didn’t text at all Wednesday people make time because he have a lunch break, he goes home after work doesn’t text back , wakes up doesn’t text back
I would say chance it out. You really don’t know what he is going through at his job where he can’t get to his phone. If he is consistently ditching you for a couple days on, then I would fall back
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I’ve been waiting it out it’s been almost a full 24hrs kinda thinking it was an excuse because it have two kids , works, my son is in football, drop my kids off to school, cook, clean parent and still make time
@tiyap123 well everyone has different thoughts and expectations. If you think it’s an excuse 1. You can communicate what you want or 2. You can cut contact
Yes! Communication is key. Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet because what you may be thinking , may not be the truth. Happened to me in my current situation and I bit the bullet. People have different ways of handling being busy
Before he said he was busy I was going over even when he had to work he came to get me and he was texting checking up on me I had to be at home at 6 he had to be at work at 8 but he got up early to make sure I made it home in time now he’s busy to text back or call or to let me know he’s busy it’s just the communication for me
He doesn’t wanna hang out with you all the time people need breaks Sometimes my friends do that to me I will hangout with my friends and then they will Say we should hangout tomorrow and then something comes up or the friend send me a text out of no where and explains why we can’t hangout it’s a pretty normal thing for people Everybody does it if they don’t wanna hangout all the time.
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I didn’t ask to hang out …I texted him Monday he didn’t text so I left him alone I called close to 10 Tuesday to check on him that’s when he sent that and I texted him back I haven’t heard from him since Tuesday I haven’t been bothering him just going on with my day but yea
Even if I’m working I could also send a text while I’m in the bathroom or when I’m on break or right after work or before bed or when I’m warming food up in the microwave people have time people just don’t would rather lie about there time.
If I got time to cook or go to fast food then I got a few seconds to send a text not sending a text back and just purposely reading the text but not even responding is rude that’s 1 one reasons I Quit talking to people I used to talk to all the time caus they wanna be ignorant
Right that’s what I’m trying to explain to people. And before then he was saying he really like me he’s thinking about us being together but wants ti move slow saying he’s trying to figure some things out instead of rushing he said that because I said I’m doing the same so it was an understanding called me beautiful and etc dropped me back off at home one day later all of a sudden he’s to busy and didn’t text back since Tuesday
I have two kids , working, have to take my kids to football practice 6 to 8, drop them off at school pick them up , parent, cook , clean , and still text back
For many Dudes A female having kids is a total turnoff and many dudes ounce they find out the girl has kids He won’t even Try to date no more that’s what he’s doing you shouldn’t of told him you have kids and none of this would of ever happened he started lying and saying he’s busy when you told him about you having kids
Igs but it would be mature to say that instead of I’m busy with work explaining why then say I’m not mad acting funny or ignoring but to me it seems like he is it’s ok though
If you read between the lines, he just wants to be by himself for a while. Sometimes you need a break in the relationship and don't wanna hang 24/7.
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Why not just say that ……. and he haven’t texted back since Tuesday…. before he said he was busy he was stopping by, offering to buy me lunch, comes to pick me up , even though he had work I had work at 6 he had work at 8 but he sacrificed his sleep to get me home he was staying up late with me to he said he told me his job is very important to him and he’s surprised he was missing sleep for me he never did it before but I have just been waiting it out ig
He may need a break from his phone after being at work. Especially if it's stressing him or he's tired. I'd leave the ball in his court. See if he reaches out to you.
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That’s what I’m doing he didn’t text at all Wednesday…. might just let him go because people make time ….. the last few people who did this to me the outcome was never good……but I’m trying to be understanding
I agree. In my experience, people who give excuses why they aren't texting are just not all that into you. I've experienced it as well. It's hurtful not knowing where you stand. I believe in looking for patterns in people's behavior. If he constantly ignores you fur days or if you always have to initiate contact, then I'd assume he doesn't think about you often or at all. Take a step back and consider letting him go. Because you're right, people make time fir you if they like you enough. People will put you in their life if they really want you in it.
Before he said he was busy I was going over even when he had to work he came to get me and he was texting checking up on me I had to be at home at 6 he had to be at work at 8 but he got up early to make sure I made it home in time
He didn’t get busy until now I was at his place last week a few days after her started getting busy with work he was working then to but I was still going over
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