How do you know if you want change things about you because you want to or just to shut people up?

[Anonymous]

for many years i have cut my own hair crewcut because i dont want to go to a barber shop & have to make fake conversation to someone cutting my hair.

not for a while but there have been times at passed jobs where customers & bosses have made comments about my haircuts because i do them myself.

i was thinking about going to a barber shop to get my hair cut in a few days but then i'm thinking just cut it at home like i like to do.

[Hawner]

If it's you, by your own volition, who considers it is a good moment to change something about yourself, and you change into something you do like more than what you had, then it is good. If you change because others don't like you, then stay as you are.

[Guy13]

Get it professionally done. I rarely speak at or with hairdresser. The fact that he’s Japanese helps though 😎