I have a crush on him in 2017 then I get married after 5 years I saw him again and realized that I still have crush on him 😩?

[Cheriecoco]

I have crush on him before getting married and after 5 good years I came back at the same company and saw him again my heart beat so fast and I realized that I still have crush on him, I make an effort to get close to him, I told him that I used to have crush on him he laughed and we started talking on Snapchat and then one day I told him that I still have crush on him he laughed again but still talking to me everyday morning and night. right now I’m confused lol I don’t know if he likes me back Im the one who’s always start a conversation he likes my jokes and he joked with me something we talk about nasty things we laugh together but still he never told me that he likes me. I’m really confused 🫤 !

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I am no longer married lol I forgot to mention it sorry

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I’m not longer married I forgot to mention it

[CallmeTheKnight]

I don't think this really needs an answer. You're divorced

[spartan55]

Ho w

[spartan55]

Whoops... how do you not mention that are no longer married in your OP? Then everyone jumped you about being married, and then you start back pedaling... just seems odd to me.

[Cheriecoco]

Not at all I just forget to mention in my op lol why would I have a crush on someone while I’m still married? I’m not married thank you 😊.

[spartan55]

Because it is very common on this forum for posters to just pretend they aren't 👰 married when they are.

[TwiNshichamp1]

You should go straight and ask him in the middle of a Convo,...

"I have already told you that I have crush on you, so how do you think about me?"

This will be more straight forward and it will stop the bullshit between you if it was any.

[Cheriecoco]

Right I think it’s a good idea thank you 😊

[TwiNshichamp1]

@Cheriecoco you're welcome.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Good thing you updated us on your situation about no longer being married. In that case, go for it. You should continue being straightforward with him and ask him if he's married and if he also likes you.

[Cheriecoco]

Thank you 🥰

[Guy13]

Firstly, why would you marry if you were not all-in emotionally and physically. Marriage to one ☝️ while crushing upon another seems to be 🚩🚩🚩🚩 🤷🏻‍♂️

If you are still married then: 1. Why are you leading him on? 2. Do you not realize monogamy, both physical and emotional, are contractually agreed upon?

If you are no longer married then specify please.

[Cheriecoco]

I am no longer married sorry I forgot to mention it

[Guy13]

Alright... that's just a small oversight !! He does know that you were married? If yes, how does he like the idea that he's the reason you are divorced?

[Cheriecoco]

No I’ve been divorced for about a year now and it’s been a month since I told him that I have a crush on him

[Guy13]

He must be seeing someone or afraid of Rebound guy?

[Cheriecoco]

Maybe !

[taraburtch]

he's not turning you away. soooo you're still in the clear. it'll build. it takes time. take it step by step. if he doesn't want you he will let you know. but again if he really wants you he will put in effort.

[Nahid1707]

It’s good you are ready for a new relationship 😊
Have you ever been told you look like someone? 😅

[Cheriecoco]

No never

[Nahid1707]

Based on your profile picture
You do a little bit look like a celebrity 😊

[Vikkrram]

Now you are married ma'am so i would say it's not worthy to approach him. Leave it as it is.

[In_Trance]

Talk to your husband about it

[Cheriecoco]

I am no longer married

[rebeliouse]

why are you no longer married?

[Cheriecoco]

Get disappointed

[rebeliouse]

have u been with anyone since?

[Cheriecoco]

No 😩