Am I being immature?

[postempestas]

Thing is simple. I am sure about my feelings for this guy in a 80% but he can't admit anything yet, he tells me to be pacient. (I'm trying). But shit is so scary because I'm so in and I'm not sure how in he is... I don't want to adress the conversation again cuz he always tells me the same thing "be pacient with me, it takes me time to open" (know that we have been dating for a month already) and I don't want to be intense and annoying. So I decided to distance myself from him a bit. Be less available. I can't be so over him meanwhile he may not even feel the same. It's unfair and scary. He will either notice it or won't give a fuck.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Maybe start with the idea that maturity is choosing actions that have the highest chance of succeeding with your real goals. That negates things like escalating a conflict with a loved one since your goal if they are actually loved ones is never to become further apart.

Your case is tricky. But the same question to me.

[UniquelyBasic]

What do you want him to admit? you're already dating

[hattice]

Text me I wanna ask you something

[UniquelyBasic]

@hattice About what?

[hattice]

About which pic of me I should make profile pic

[UniquelyBasic]

@hattice Keep the one you have already

[hattice]

You haven't seen the alternatives

[postempestas]

I don't want to feel like I'm a summer fling. Doing stuff together without going nowhere. No. I'm not the carpe diem type of girl. He never verbalizes how he feels. I'll see him this weekend. I don't know how I'll behave. But until then, no more extra texts saying nothing. Let him miss me.

[UniquelyBasic]

Well if he's just wasting your time then it might be time to leave and that doesn't mean he's in the wrong.

[postempestas]

I'm not speakimg about leaving jeez hahahah Just take some distance and time alone. I want to give less until he shows me more. I trully think he's trying. Smth tells me he does.

[UniquelyBasic]

If you have to play games like restricting access to you then this seems like a weird relationship.