I'm 19 and sound childish and immature, is this normal?

[Anonymous]

I'm currently in my 2nd year of college. If it's my day off from work or I have no classes for two days, it's either going to the movies, playing some video games for hours or getting drunk with my friends at parties.

I've only been in two relationship, one lasted a year and the other 5 months. I broke up with my HS boyfriend when I was in 12th grade because I had a crush on someone else (whom I was attracted to) and didn't want to cheat. I broke up with my current boyfriend of 5 months because I felt it was too much responsibilities and sometimes I like my freedom. I don't want babies.

I think my brain isn't fully developed yet. I'm feeling myself childish and immauture. Is this normal for a 19 year-old girl?

[Summeroflove]

I think sometimes things aren’t meant to be. Yeah. It sucks to dump someone. But it’s better then stringing them and yourself along.


You will know when you find the one.

[Asker]

and it's a lot better than not just stringing them along but also cheating on them. That would've been so cold. So I prefer dumping, even if the reason is because I want to date other. I say things straight forward.

[Summeroflove]

Exactly. It’s good to try at least to end of good terms and not string them along or cheat on them. That’s wrong.

As long as you break up in a good way. Yeah you’re right

[Summeroflove]

Its not good to be unhappy with someone you know you don’t like being with anymore and don’t want to marry them. Stringing them along and even cheating.

Sometimes. As I said. Things aren’t meant to be.

[Guy13]

It sounds like you are enjoying life just a little too much. Seems like you are in a whirlwind?

[Nash62826]

I'm 19 and in my second year at uni my college lecturer thought I was a student for the open house tour. I just say we're aging slowly atp.

[dustybiker]

Just be yourself and and enjoy it. Worst thing we can each do is compare ourselves to others.

[AngryCarl]

That's pretty normal. 19 isn't 25.

[Asker]

True. I'm not even ready for babies yet.