I didn't know before that this guys likes me, he'll be named Paul. Me (female) kissed so many guys in front on him, but I did not know he likes me. Later I found out from my friend (we'll call her Betty) Betty that Paul likes me. I did not have feeling for him, plus he wasn't showing interest in me so I ignored it and continued kissing more guys in front of him (somehow he always ends up at the party where I kiss guys). Then one night, me and Paul kissed. 3 months later I kissed other guys, but started catching feelings for Paul, so I decided to stop kissing so many men. I started focusing on Paul, but thought he lost feelings, so I moved on. Then recently I found out he still has feelings for me, but he is just shy. I want to commit to him, and only him because I only want to stick to one man. I want to know from a guys perspective, what would u want the girl to do in this situation? Should I tell him straight up I like him? Or will that scare him off?
You have already tainted your image from his point of view. He isn't only shy but you have proven that you aren't consistent and your interests are fleeting. Why would a guy that want a relationship, that knows this ever approach you? Especially if he is shy, he will keep guarding his feelings because you are a recipe for getting hurt. Sounds more like you are failing and are grasping after the last straws that you haven't got.
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I will never understand where you girls get these completely backward ideas. He doesn't know that you like him more than your multiple guy rotation. He thinks it was just his turn the one time you mashed. If you approaching him scares him off then he wasn't the right guy anyway.
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I would say so before he snaps out of this stage and thinks of all the guy lips that have been on yours
Kiss like just a quick kiss or intimate smooch?
So kiss him the next time you see him.
She ain’t my girl no more
I dont mind its a culture thing
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She won’t
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