Why do guys never confess their feelings even if they love you?

[Milania88]

[Chazmatazz269]

It’s still almost entirely inappropriate for men to express themselves in the society we’ve created. You have to earn an extraordinary level of trust in order to experience that with most men in their right mind.

[Anonymous]

Lol, look I did it to a number of girls 🤣. And every time some stupid excuse came.

Milania88 I don't want you to be upset. You are young and guys in your age group will not like you till you reach college. Once you hit proper puberty you will become like this butterfly out of a cocoon)). So, don't get upset just be patient

[Massageman]

Guys: Sex first, then you earn his trust.

Gals: Trust first, then you earn her sex.

Just one of the major examples wherein men are the opposites of women in many respects. Mark Gungor: "Tale of Two Brains".

[MrCommodore]

Because women are quite difficult to read, it's not easy to know if she is interested romantically or just wants to be friends.

[BeMuse]

Maybe you just take things more serious than them...

[Milania88]

What do you mean

[BeMuse]

I mean you might be projecting your feelings onto them. You are madly in love with them and they stick with you, so you think they love you even though they don't say it. In reality they might not love you as much as you think they do. Women tend to project their feelings onto men without understanding anything about men's feelings. They don't even ask men's feelings, they assume they understand them and that men are scared to show their feelings. It's really delusional. I've seen from everything from girls thinking they know how a guy feels about them to when women think they understand how men feel about someone dying. They always think they can read a guys mind, and they are always wrong every single time. That's what women's intuition is...

[BeMuse]

Think about all the times you thought some random guy was creepy, a robber, a rapist or whatever. Did they do anything to you? Did they break into your home that night? Did they rape you? Did they put a gun to your head? No, those where your own anxieties that you projected unto them. Women do the same thing with love. When they chicken out and get scared because they fall for a guy so hard, they self sabotage and think a guy is in love with them or stalking them out of their own fears. When they are in love with a guy and confident in themselves they think the guy is totally in love with them and they're destine to get married. In reality men have nothing to do with those feelings. They don't share your fantasies. Those fantasies are all in your head. You created them. They could just be thinking about how it would be good to eat a slice of pizza pie.

[BeMuse]

Men are generally pretty straight forward about a lot of things. If we have feelings, they will probably come out when we are feeling them. Just because you don't get the answer you hoped for doesn't mean we're hiding something...

[exitseven]

It is a scary thing. A guy bares his soul and there is a good chance that a girl will take it and rip it in two.

[FunkyMonkee]

I think it's because we've been "programmed" all our lives NOT to show our emotions because, if we do, we'll be sissies.

[SnowedIn]

They're scared you won't reciprocate and they'll feel stupid.

[Guardian45]

Guys in general are poor at expressing feelings. People like me, a neurodivergent, are worse.

[Pohjolan]

You are still a teenager meaning that you should be interacting with boys, not men.

[Anonymous]

Common sense. You never tell a woman what you're really thinking.

[Summeroflove]

Because of rejection and awkwardness

[Heolurt]

Because females are ruthless and brutal.

[dean53AU]

Some of us do...

[panamared1]

Fear of rejection