90% of men think that the friendly behavior of women is "flirting"! Is this true? (Page 2)

[Wajahat007]

There is usually a fine line between being friendly and flirting. I think most men can tell the difference - even though it is a subtle one!

[KrakenAttackin]

Not always, although most men are used to women being somewhat hostile, so a friendly smile can be misinterpreted.

[cyclekarl]

In my experience it is very rare for women to be nice to me unless they are after something, they usually want a favour or money otherwise I am invisible to them.

[Echosoul]

Varies. Basically there is no discernable way to tell the difference from what I can tell and I've from what I can tell virtually never been flirted with unless I missed it.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Well 90 percent of women assume a guy being friendly means he wants to have sex with them

so I say yes that is true because most women are very cold towards most men

[varan69]

Yes I do believe your statement. Becuase we dont get the same attention from just any girl the same way a guy treats girls, but at the same time u can tell when its friendly and when its flirting

[Sarahplus2]

A lot of men think that way. Some men you can't be friendly because they think you are being flirty.

[Bristlebeck]

Depends on the girl, i feel confident girls does intentionally flirt with guys they find attractive, to find campatablity... I stop thinking what's girl think.. If i like someone i approach them directly... Fuck her if she isn't interested.

[PinkRose24]

I read somewhere that guys think you're flirting with them when they find you attractive...

[JesseJayNeak]

Yes. Especially since for the average man, female interaction is an unexpected thing. It could go of three ways:

- Believing she’s only trying to be nice

- Taking it as an insult or mockery

- Take it as flirting

[Rockstarrrrr]

Women think so too but they hide it and act all passive lol

[Jay3344]

I don’t think so. Sometimes it’s a little flirty but I usually just discount most of it as friendliness. Only strong flirting gets my attention

[ericclayton]

Good question. I think many men misread women due to wishful thinking, and mistake pleasantry with attraction.

[LiamJHayden]

Cannot speak to the true % as I have not seen the studies, but personal experience is that most, but not nearly 90%, do.

[HaveNoName]

Naaaaaaa. This is the view of frustrated female interaction deprived guys who take even a rare word of hello as "ooooooh she made a pass at me.."

[es20490446e]

Yes, that's what I explain men all the time. That women have more shades of gray.

[Subarugirl]

There are a lot who do, but I doubt that is that high.

[Justneedtokno]

Honestly, it’s easy to misinterpret things. I’ve done it with men as well.

[AngryCarl]

I'm afraid I do agree with that. Men who aren't in a relationship are usually starved of female attention.

[ThatCanucker]

Not flirting so much as if a woman talks to me out of nowhere and is friendly I assume she wants something from me.

[PatriceONeal]

When women are acting objectively rude, independant, and abrasive as they are now. Any form of friendliness will be taken as an advance.

[Rathoreshivraj]

Its bittertruth
Even i do so
But even thinking of flirting i feel uncomfortable because i doubt what she needs , cause i think women can't flirt with a guy until she needs something

[serious_miss419]

But that’s why a man flirts with a women. He wants her in bed.

[Rathoreshivraj]

No no
Not all guys do with this intention
Some guys do healthy flirting with no bed intentions

[VforVindication]

Yes because when a woman hates you, you know it right away.

[Likes2drive]

Probably more than 50%. I would think because it’s easily misconstrued as flirting.

[Noodle_fan]

it is true some men think that way

however i think 90% is too high

[Luopio27]

When it comes down to women, I dont have a sense of reality.

[Jhunitor]

I often hear the total opposite claim from women lol.

[SlavicThor]

I don't. Flirting for me isn't being kind or polite aha

[Chthou95]

This just goes to show that women have no fucking clue how a lot of men think considering that a lot of men have no experiences with women

[CubaPirate]

When you get to my age you definitely know the difference between nice and flirty lol 😆 😉 🤣

[noohair]

Guys are not good a discerning and get mixed signals.

[Nsync]

No, I do not think so. It is probably be as high as 99% :- )

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Maybe two years ago. I thought now they take zero risks

[Caramelpie]

I Always live this nightmare with some guys outside.

[Cassie2002]

I believe so just trying be friendly. Sometimes not even meaning to flirt.

[Hardworkingguy]

No.. I've met women who are just nice to others and don't want a relationship

[Manuel2]

It is the way you do it
Your body language counts too

[Anonymous]

We are so used to women being absolutely poison towards men, that yes it seems like flirting when women are kind and polite.

[Anonymous]

I could believe it

I generally had the opposite problem of not noticing flirting aimed at me

[Anonymous]

When most women are somewhat standoffish, any kind of kindness can easily be seen as flirting.

[robocop666]

they don't know the difference between kindness and flirting. Poor social skills then.

[AmandaYVR]

No, they don't. No way.

[NathanDavis]

100% immature... and not men, yet

[Astarlessnightsky]

I think its about 100% of men who think like this.

[MCheetah]

Probably true.

[melanieeeB]

I would say 70-80% lol

[boggboss]

Maybe 60-70 but not 90

[Guy13]

60% do…definitely the majority.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 good morning. :)

[Guy13]

@Akam93 Good morning blue eyes...

[Akam93]

@Guy13 you think my eyes are blue? People say their hazel also. 🤷‍♀️

[EndlessVoid20]

People in general believe that I think.

[Makeushiver]

Or at least we hope so

[KostasKouvalis]

I don't know about 90%, but I certainly do

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Yes i would think so 😂

[Anonymous]

yeah and it's annoying

[TheFlak38]

definitely true

[Nerdvana]

Boy, you are way off. It's 98%.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Well then how can we tell he difference

[OddBeMe]

Was this a poll of high school students?

[prosmind]

Most of the guys harbor such feelings.

[Äxlbäksölöl]

Well im desperate enought to think that

[msc545]

a lot of it has to do with the body language