Could my friend be correct?

[Anonymous]

my best mate Thomas, who is friends with Mike; said that Mike wasn’t too disabled by Asperger’s to be my boyfriend, like he said he was. That he liked me too but didn’t have the confidence to pursue a relationship with me, so he blocked me multiple times on Facebook when I tried to talk to him about it, then offer my friendship; and proceeded to turn up in places where I was and communicate with me through fake Facebook aliases for a year. Are men really that messed up, usually?

[NotTacocaT6969]

Remember that episode of spongebob where mr krabs has a crush on ms puff and he’s unable to express himself other than by shouting gibberish at first?



I think that sums up how some men are.

[jorfan3]

It sounds like he might not be too disabled... It just sounds like he might not be MATURE enough.

I don't know any men that have done that.

[Asker]

It was very confusing behaviour.

[Guy13]

If he says he is not confident then do not push him.

[Asker]

I’m not pushing him. I told him he’s acting like a teenager and he left it too long to make a move.

[Guy13]

Alright, you go and teach him how to be a man !! Hopeful, he is a quick learner.

[Asker]

Someone had to.

[Asker]

I’m not pursuing him anymore. You summed it up about being a man.

[Guy13]

You're a smart woman. Good luck out there in the New Year !!

[Asker]

Thanks 😊. You too