Good for abuse?

[Diya1014]

How do men feel about women that don’t ask for anything?
I thought that men liked women who don’t ask for anything and that they thought it made her special and desirable.

Do they like that or do they just use it against you to take advantage?

[quaranta]

I think you mismatch the woman who doesn't ask "anything" with the woman who doesn't expect any respect, doesn't protect her boundaries and doesn't respect her own needs. For sure a woman who is very independent on her own, confident, pursues what she wants and doesn't actually "need" a man feels like a woman who has a lot to give and not much to require (good cost/benefits balance), instead of, for example, a woman who thinks the man will resolve her emotive and financial problems. So yeah, a low cost vs benefits in that sense might be attractive for some. But not demanding respect and not protecting your boundaries? I'm not sure this is even attractive to anyone, but this is for sure a dangerous conception for yourself.

I think, also, you are making the mistake to think that behaving like a "good girl" equals to get justice automatically. This just does not work at all, because the point is that it's up to the man you select (you select!) to be a respectful, responsible and mature person. It doesn't matter if you are accessible, submitted and modest, or a leading figure, skilled and adventurous: you get respected by the men who are respectful, and get disrespected by the ones who aren't. So you should not only do a good selection, but also keep in mind that if you get a disrespectful man he will NOT rescure you from his own self, you will have to do that alone of course. So, keep always some degree of independence and safety, speak when something is not right, give them ultimatums if they keep being problematic, don't bend to their personality if you don't feel to. Keep your individuality intact.
But anyway it's all up to how the man you select is, it's not about how you are that makes them be better or worse on your regards, neither makes them change if they were bad with their exes, or with you at the beginning.
Plus: being attractive doesn't grant you any respect, they are 2 very separated things. Rather, pick a man who is capable of respecting people he is not attracted to, too (like elders, kids, other men), which just means not a pseudo-psychopath.

[TrustOfWorthington]

In the contrary, A person whatever gender, who knows what she likes and dislikes is much "better", for me at least, I am versatile which reflects on my decisions in Life but I know what I like, love and dislike and I tell it to potential partners. Matching interests to generalise this, are in my opinion very important, so if you'll just do whatever He likes how can I ever know I am actually giving you the love and attention you want and need?

[EaterPeter]

We should have class, dreams, goals and values. When we don't then we may be easily seen as target? Or we can be an enabler.

[swettannie]

women that don't ask for anything?

[misogynistic_pig]

Both.