Guy's Behavior

Does it count as abuse?

He says violent things. Buthe doesn't hit people. He says he was somewhat of bigshot in university and he slapped a lot of juniors who misbehaved. That's a normal thing in my country. He told me his father never raised hand on his mother and he wouldn't either. But his words are really violent. when he's triggered he shouts and of I don't calm him down by being really sweet and gentle he explodes. I'm an angry person and I don't accept bad behavior and screaming. So I don't try to calm him down. And he bursts in anger. In nights he'd have a fit of insecurities and say I don't love him because I'm not facing him when I sleep or I didn't hug him. and if I get annoyed and say something he gets furios and shouts mean things about me and my family. he said horrible things about my sister. he's been diagnosed with bipolar and he says he can't control anger and mania. he checks my phone and email. in midnights during fights he'd hold my neck and say he'll choke me. he raises his hand and says punch me. i tell him to punch me but he doesn't do it. his father also tells his mom hell smash her face when she says weird things (she's very immature and childish). Is it violence. im fits of rage he said he'll beat my family. But that was once and he apologized. So it's all better if he's apologizes sincerely? Is it still abuse if he didn't have any control.

Does it count as abuse?
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