If a one night stand still initiates contact days after and keeps in touch. Is it possible he likes me?

[Anonymous]

[Cynicaldreamer]

Not necessarily. He's probably keeping you as an option (he might want to hook up with you again later). Or he's just possessive: he might see you as someone he really enjoys being with, without wanting to commit to you- yet he doesn't want other guys sleeping with you either while he's hooking up with you.

Don't get too attached because you might start falling for him (or vice versa) yet he's only after sex when he wants it. If you're fine with just hooking up with him, make sure that's clear... actually that should have been established from the getgo. It is possible he might fall for you? Yes, but unlikely :|

[Asker]

Can I ask, why is it unlikely? Due to the literal nature of the situation? As in he doesn’t know me and I’ve given him my body so quickly and often guys tend to categorise woman as unserious candidates when they have had sex with her so soon? I do like him but I realise that it’s probably just infatuation because I do not know him! We have been speaking for a week and met just once.

[SphynxUK]

He just wants sex again.
If he saw you as dating material he wouldn’t have started out with a ONS.

[Asker]

We went on a date it was drunk me who initiated it

[Anonymous]

Chances are the answer is no. He probably thought you were good sexually, maybe you look cute. But as far as actually being interested in you for a potential relationship I’d say no not at all. I know I wouldn’t be.

[Asker]

Why not though

[Opinion Owner]

Because for me when I think back to the one night stands I had. Those girls were just east fun. I was just looking to get some tail, To me they really didn’t deserve respect I’d they didn’t respect theirselves. Yes I know you’re thinking but you were doing the same. Yes that is true but sadly different rules between male and female sadly. Three it makes you wonder man how many other dudes has she done this w? For years I had a friend who was cute, one day she gave me a blowjob at work. Then I found out fuck she was doing that to other men as well, so no she wasn’t for me. Made me think damn how much but has she swallowed, how many ducks has she had in her. Most men don’t want to take a girl like that hime to their family. Especially if his friends know about her they’re going to clown on him.

[Asker]

Yeah he’s not gonna see me as the type of girl he can be serious with but it’s not to say he’s a bad person it’s just how life is, I actually met his friend that night and I’m sure he told him everything so I can just put the idea that we are gonna be anything other than potential friends with benefits in the trash because you are right. I am better moving on and wait till meeting a guy and getting to know him over a few dates.

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly w the way girls are being raised today they’re being misled about not needing men. A lot of them realize that after they’ve “lived their best life” they’re hitting a wall in their late 20’s to early 30’s that they don’t have a man, marriage or kids. By then that clock starts to wind down. I’m not saying you can’t have their in your 30’s, it’s just harder as you get older as a female. Sure there may be some women who find that much later in life, that’s the exception not the rule. A lot of men want a girl who is committed, treats him like a kind, doesn’t give him a lot of issues, etc. I’m not saying you have to be a doormat, most men don’t want that either. But most men don’t want women the way they’re raised today. So yes I’d say date someone for a while. Get to know him. Enjoy time w each other, have fun.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. He may like you.
2. You may be the only woman who is currently available and who has shown any level of interest.
3. He may just like having sex with you.

[spartan55]

It's possible that he would like to have sex again.

[Genegenehh]

If you had a friendship before this, I’d say he likes you.
If you just met, maybe he doesn’t have much experience in a one night stand and is trying to be nice?

[Asker]

Beforehand we where just talking to get to know each other, I only known him for about one week. I’m not sure. I guess if I’m not sure the safest option is to expect nothing and assume it was just a one night stand

[boggboss]

Or wants more sex most likely

[Asker]

Do you think because I put out so early he’s just gonna see me as something casual? I did know him for a week but it was still one night stand in my opinion

[boggboss]

Why would he see u as anything more when it's pretty clear what this was going to be lol

[boggboss]

He won't see u as somthing casual u are somthing casual

[Asker]

True. I went into it just looking to hook up he said he was looking to date but i seduced him. And when I was drunk I was honest about that. Best to just move on I prob don’t like him it’s prob just infatuation because we had sex, im sure it will pass

[boggboss]

How do u not know if u like him or not lol

[Agape93]

Or he just wants to keep fucking you

[Wise4myage]

Id say he likes having sex with you.

[Wise4myage]

But beyond that, I would suggest you talk to him about this.

[CoolCatMar1]

I agree

[Wise4myage]

@CoolCatMar1 Thanks!