Why has he stopped texting me after he texted me that I'm hot?

[Donna33]

Until 2 days ago he was texting me everyday during several months. He had confessed his feelings for me twice. I rejected him because I had a boyfriend, although I hadn't told him about my boyfriend until recently so he kept contacting me and flirting with me. Then, when a I broke up with my boyfriend, he kept trying but another guy appeared on scene and I gave this new guy a chance. The other guy acted very jealous but kept flirting with me, more intensely than before. And 2 days ago he texted me that he thinks I'm so hot. I told him that I didn't like his comment and he said he was sorry, that he didn't want to make me feel bad. And then disappeared, instead of trying to flirt with me gently again. He hasn't texted me in 2 days and doesn't like my posts anymore

[TheSpaceGnome]

Telling him you didn't like his comment about you being hot = rejecting him. Expecting him to persue you after that is unreasonable. Also in both cases, he persued you while you were taken, stop messing around with multiple guys and pick one.

[boggboss]

Why would he continue when it's clear u don't like him or was just using him for a ego boost

[Donna33]

To be honest, he made me feel like a hoe by calling me "hot". I didn't like it. I cannot see him like before. He was gentle and kind and respectful. I didn't expect from him to be like that. And it makes me think that he only wanted sex all these months and that he didn't really loved me as he said. It is true that I couldn't be with him because I had a boyfriend and after breaking up with him I was turned on more by that new guy. But I was planning of giving him a chance in the future and seemed like he was understanding that and having patience. And he suddenly sent me that "hot" message. I felt disgusted..

[boggboss]

So u had him as a option not even a second option and wonder why he didn't stay

[Donna33]

I wanted him to be my friend, first, and he wanted me in a way I didn't want to, yet. I wanted him to be close to me, really close to me, so to give him the chance I thought he deserved when I'd be ready for him, because I was looking at him seriously, but he was unable to handle that in that process I would date other people. I mean, he wasn't able to wait more and he finally has tried to sexualize our relationship. I saw him as superior to the other guys I've dated because he was kind and gentle but he decided to destroy that with that "hot" message

[boggboss]

How can u see hime as serious or more when u had him as a back up option what your saying don't match up to your actions like I don't think he was that serious either but u can't claim u treated him well if u liked him as u played him for a mug

[Donna33]

I thought he was serious about me, because he was chasing me for 1 year and I know that he didn't date other women. And I relied on that, thinking that he loved me sincerely and he suddenly 2 days ago he called me "hot". I liked him for whom he was

[Donna33]

He didn't date other women during this time, I mean, and he was waiting for me. He told me that. But if he waited for so long, he could have some more patience too before destroying everything with that text

[boggboss]

How do u make someone wait a year and claim u gave him a chance if this is how u treat people u like or think are serious I see why u are single

[Guy13]

He saw something about you that he did not trust or he is intimidated.