My ex husband asked me to move in with him after 3 months and we were married for 8 years. (He’s very handsome and he’s actually a good man. )
Now this new guy wants me to move in with him (he even mentioned marriage) He’s a very attractive guy. I’ve seen how attractive girls (better than me) look at him and get nervous around him. He can get better girls. I’m not that ugly but I looked better before now I’m depressed. I’m just afraid he wants a housekeeper and someone to share the bills with. I study, work a lot and know how to cook. My gut feeling tells me he’s a little obsessed with me (a little) and there’s a reason behind this proposal. We’re both 27
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My ex is a good man. We are just in different paths. It was just an example.
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Your ex husband is an ex for a reason so don’t dive back into that. This new guy is moving too fast, 3 months is no time. Stay single, get to know the new person since it’s a clean slate, tell your ex to kick rocks and keep healing, growing and moving forward.
Being an ex doesn’t make him any less good, but the terms are still the same and likely not changing any time soon.
I also need a girl to move in with me and help with the mortgage, since my girlfriend killed herself and left me with everything
What is the reason?
A housekeeper and maybe someone to have a better life because I work 10 hours and study. I’m insecure because I’ve seen this happen to older woman or even man. My ex was my only formal boyfriend and another guy who had money but treated me bad.
Yea don’t go back to your ex move on and live your life…