I’ve been seeing this guy for the past few months. We aren’t together I don’t know what we are. One day he treats us like a couple the next day he says we aren’t really together. He acts like he doesn’t really like me. We talk often, go out, have sex nearly as much as couples do. We got into an argument over something stupid weeks ago and as a result he gave me a 9 day silent treatment. On the 7th day my ex hit me up and I caught up with him. I originally stopped talking to my ex as respect for this guy. But since he ignored me for a long time I thought he ghosted me and wasn’t coming back so I started talking to my ex. Not to get back together just to have someone to talk to. After the 9th day he came back and we continued whatever it is we have.
He’s learned that I’ve been talking to my ex and can’t stand it. Although we aren’t dating, Im nothing but truthful to him. He is assuming I’m sleeping with my ex regardless what I tell him and meeting up with him. My ex has been talking about meeting up but I’ve been declining him. I haven’t seen my ex in person since last year. I’m not interested either but me talking to him makes me feel like my options are open because this guy can’t make up his mind what he wants from me. He’s already made up his mind that he’s going to let me get back with my ex and leave me alone for good because of that’s what I want but it’s really not. I feel like I created unnecessary drama.
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Both of those relationships sound toxic as hell. My advice to you is to disconnect from both of them and start fresh with someone else.