My boyfriend didn't tell me that my leggings were completely see through and that my thong was on show when we were out all day, should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

You're an adult. You chose your outfit. It is YOUR responsibility to make sure it is presentable. It's hardly a secret that leggings are often see-through, and they are (or, at least, were, when originally created) intended to be worn with something over them for that very reason.

Do you have any idea how many women get upset if a man suggests that they might not have made the best clothing choices - regardless of the reason? There are at least 10,000 TikTok videos of women being pissed off because their man had some kind of problem with what she was wearing (usually that it was too revealing). Women have taught men to shut up about these things.

So, please, take some personal responsibility and quit trying to blame your boyfriend for the choices YOU made. YOU failed to do any diligence to ensure you weren't showing anything you didn't want to - that's not on him.

[dean53AU]

Don't worry about it, it happens to most girls that are wearing leggings due to thin material stretching a little while you are wearing them.
As long as you aren't worried too much about a few lucky people who may or may not have had a quick peek as you walked by.
I know I would admire that.

[Maddie248]

He most likely thought you did it on purpose to make him happy

[Anonymous]

It's possible he didn't notice. More likely he thought you knew and let you go with what you chose. I'm sure, if he noticed, which he probably did, that he enjoyed the view.

Tbh I don't think it's a huge deal, leggings sometimes can be a bit sheer. Let him know that you're uncomfortable with your leggings being see through if you're wearing a thong, so he can let you know next time.

[BeMuse]

Worried about what, that you wore trashy clothes to get attention and it took you an entire day of flashing the entire city to get a little bit from your boyfriend?

[OfMiceandMen]

Meh... why worry about it now. What's done is done. Just make a mental note, those leggings are a little revealing and maybe stash them away for at home use.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Why did you buy something without trying it on and figuring that out for yourself

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Your boyfriend should tell you that he can see through your leggings.

[OddBeMe]

You should be. Because you didn’t catch that yourself.

We barely no what leggings are. Don’t rely on us.

[convo_king89]

He probably liked seeing your panty line.. but u can’t undo your exposed panty line.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

He was probably just enjoying the view

[Asker]

Lol that would make sense

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol, he probably should've told you though. Especially if he knows it wasn't intentional

[Anonymous]

why should you? It's a great view!

[DryGermanGuy]

So... you are legally blind?

[Asker]

I couldn't tell.

[MaddyJ]

No. It happens. At least you had undies on

[slatyb]

No, you shouldn't. No one cares.

[Iron_Man]

Well, why can’t you tell yourself?

[Asker]

Yes I should of been more mindful before I left the house. But he surely must of known.

[spartan55]

Worried about what?

[Asker]

That he didn't tell me and didn't seem to mine others looking

[spartan55]

So you aren't responsible enough to make sure your thong isn't on display, so you blame your boyfriend for not telling you? How about just tell yourself you messed up and move on?

[Asker]

I'm not blaming him. I'm just asking if he should of told me.

[spartan55]

You didn't have anything covering your ass.

[spartan55]

? Maybe it wasn't as obvious as you thought.

[Anonymous]

He may not have noticed..

[jjj101010]

Maybe he thought u knew

[najekim]

Nope.

[Kmoney100]

That’s so rude