How do I stop loving him when he still loves me but pretending not too?

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Hi there a little back story, my ex and I had a pretty bad breakup (as most people do) and unfortunately we said horrible things to each other and could not leave each other without scars, I tried to reach out to him a few months later to ease some of the pain in his eyes, only for him to say more nasty things to me and for me to accept that he "doesn't love me and never did" but his friends and some close family members say that he speaks about me all the time, and that he still loves me even though he does everything in his power to show off on social media that he no longer cares.

He still has feelings for me and I still have feelings for him despite us both saying horrible things to each other. Why is he pretending to be over me and he refuses to reconcile, why does he make himself miserable to a point of letting ego and pride get in his way, he even went as far to jump straight into dating right after we ended. What should I do... it's so complicated because I know the love is still there. But he pushes me away everytime.

Kindly please no sarcastic remarks as this is a very difficult time thank you.

Thanks everyone.

How do I stop loving him when he still loves me but pretending not too?
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