Can I ask him “how to stop loving you”?

[Anonymous]

[serious]

It seems you want to break up with him. Is it?

[Asker]

He is not even my boyfriend 😭

[serious]

Well, I apologize there were no details in your question so I assumed this.

[Asker]

Oh no don’t apologize

[serious]

Thanks.

[serious]

May I ask do you know him well or are you friends with him?

[Asker]

We’ve been very close and seems like i only developed feelings for him

[serious]

I understand now it is not known whether he likes you or loves you or not and if he has no such feelings for you then your feelings will be one sided for him. That will hurt you even more.

In that case you should not ask him because if you do then you risk losing what you have with him right now. If you are willing to take that risk then it is okay.

If you wish to be on the safer side then you should keep your feelings to yourself. That would be most sensible thing to do in this case.

[Anonymous]

you can't just turn that off it's not a lightswitch that can turn on and off with the flip of a switch

[Asker]

Should i ask him

[Opinion Owner]

again see my original response. i still love her after 5 1/3 years even though i hardly talk to her out of fear of getting continuously hurt by her

[Anonymous]

Is this Kate...

[In_Trance]

Nope

[Subtle_this_time]

Eh? Huh

[karekaaaa]

No sure