My crush and I are in a school club together. Recently, our club's advisor did something to upset me, and I vented about it to my crush. He offered to talk to our club's exec board on my behalf. But he said he would make it seem like the problem was his because he would rather have any drama caused by it be on him instead of me.
He also told me that he wanted to ensure I was completely comfortable with still being a part of the club. At the end of our conversation, he texted me that he appreciates that I confided in him. He also complimented me about my courage and speaking ability. I don't know if this means anything or if it's just his personality because I know that he cares about making our club a welcoming place.
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If a guy tries to shield you from a problem or fix it for you, it could mean that he cares about you and wants to protect you from any harm or discomfort. In your case, it seems like your crush is willing to take the initiative to address the issue with the club's advisor on your behalf and take responsibility for any potential consequences.
His offer to help you and make it seem like the problem was his also shows that he values your relationship and wants to ensure that you feel comfortable and supported in the club. Additionally, his compliments about your courage and speaking ability suggest that he admires and respects you.
It is possible that his actions and words are just a reflection of his personality, as he cares about making the club a welcoming place. However, it is also possible that he has romantic interest in you. It would be helpful to observe his behavior and communication towards you in other situations to get a better understanding of his intentions.
It sounds like he truly cares. But you should probably own the problem. I'd thank him but try to solve it on your own. How close to you with the crush? Just starting out, sexually involved etc?
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Good for you... hang in there and enjoy his friendship!