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Someone u never dated just liked if you saw them around
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So i was walking through Dublin yesterday and i was putting my coat on my push bag as it was too warm and this guy walked past (who was fit by the way) and he looked in my eyes for a second and smiled. Now this was different to the above where he looks for ages...
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He was a stranger i shouldve added, never seen him be4 in my life
What Guys Said
This is not specific enough. Situations are different so our responses will be different. I might want her to speak just so I can ignore her. It really varies on how she did me. Did she do me dirty?
Y would she need to speak for u to ignore her u already are by not speaking
No see that's your twisted woman way of seeing things. If she likes me she has a mouth and can use it. I don't play that s***. If she's unwilling to come talk to me some other woman will get me. No skin of my nose. 🙂
If she decides later that she willing to she might have to endure the rejection. That's just the way it is.
Well thats pretty cruel to give someone a signal only to rejoin her. Im really shy and so i dont see the signs at the time
You're right! Yet you're gender does it continously. And sees nothing wrong with it. You're even going so far as to excuse it by claiming to be shy. There was a time when I would have felt bad about this but not anymore. Sorry, not sorry.
I am. I've never had a boyfriend be4. Not every1 is experienced or knows the signs
OK but that's my point. You think your being shy is all there is. The fact is many guys are shy to. And you gender calls the p***ies. Yet you still expect them to care about your feelings when your gender largely does not give a hoot about their's? I'm sorry you're shy. I'm sorry that's going to get overlooked many times. But the REALITY is for every girl like you that are just shy. There are 10 other girls that just DON'T CARE. And you can't expect the guy to know which it is. My best advice to you is learn to get over your shyness. Because people can't read your mind. I give a woman what she gives me. And if a woman gives me nothing ( even if she's just shy because I can't know that's the case) then she GETS NOTHING. It sucks that this is where dating is. But it's also a reality.
I do care about him, if i didn't i wouldve stalked him a hell of a lot more or been more annoying. My conscious has been battling over some9i did n I've regrettted it ever since.
If you knew a girl liked you, but didn't show it would u still do nothing?
But that what I'm trying to tell you women don't let guy know they're interested in him. And even if they do they recoil. Now we can debate why. In you case you claim shyness. Some women will claim not wanting to seem easy. Some will say they're not sure about him. It really doesn't matter why. As I said. In that moment to her ONLY her feelings matter. The he'll with what he's feeling the fact that he's already approached her, talked to her, kept the conversation going. And she's unsure? I'm sorry, but f*** her at that point if she expects more.
Understand I'm not trying to insult women. But as I said her feelings are not the only feelings in play. If you had to endure the amount of rejection a guy does with your shyness you simply wouldn't date.
As I told you I give a woman what she gives me. If she didn't show it how could I possibly KNOW she liked me. You don't get how many women like a guy simply for the attention.
Well thats why i asked, what if you overheard or where sure by her actions, but when given the chance she doesn't take it.
How do you know a guy is interested in you just by talking? Thats what im worried about, that he thought i was just using him and wasn't seriously into him
I would assume she's playing a game and I would be done. But as I said if she came back to me then I would probably reject her. Because I'm not going to give her the opportunity to try to humiliate me a 2nd time. So I guess the moral of the story is if you like somebody. Come at them real, come at them strong, put it all on the line, and whatever happens you took your shot. Whether you be man or woman. You're 35 hun. You know how this game is played at this point. No guy at this point is going to believe you're some sweet innocent doe eyed girl at this point. You got 2 types of guys at this point. The guy who sounds good because he wants to get into your pants. And everything he does is geared to that end. And then you got the guy who is genuine. But he ain't going to sound perfect because he isn't an act. But for every decent woman (which you claim to be) he's ran into 10 women who used him as thier favorite game to play. So to answer your questions. You NEVER know by a woman's action. You ALWAYS expect at ANY moment she was just playing you. Then it's back to square one.
The best determinant if someone is genuine, man or woman is time.
No i really Am he already knows I've got a lot. of health issues, it got worse after i left college. I dont go to clubs and i dont do online dating.. Im mentally early 20s so im learning. I dont wear make up and i generally dont care if i look good, i just about get by everyday. I've only ever liked two other guys in my life, one was gay and the other was roo young.
A person that doesn't value you genuinely typically will not spend much time on you.
Yeh he went outa his way to see me when he didn't have to. But i did something that bothered him then he went cold, but still seems to stare lol hoping to have a full time job soon, so im gonna try n see him next week n thatll be it
Well what's the worry then. Just relax and enjoy the ride. If you can't befriends with someone you really can't be anything else I always say.
Well reach out to him them. If he doesn't respond then you kind of have your answer.
I know you want me to give you a blanket answer for your problem but I'd have to know the guy. He might not be interested or he might feel slighted in some way.
I've put other qs up. There must be something cos it just doesn't add up to someone who hates me
What do you mean? Questions here? Or questions to him?
Ye on my profile
Depends on how well I know her.
Yeah.. i would like it