Is it weird for a guy to talk to his female friends everyday?

[Anonymous]

I asked and my boyfriend talks to two female friends every day/every other day. Apparently one vents to him and the other just talks about random stuff and what’s going on in their lives.

[Truthatanycost]

This is fine if he can be trusted, has strict boundaries, self restraint and is loyal. But how many people have you met that fit this bill... how many women have you met that fit this bill...

[kylee2437]

Nope, they are his friends and if you trust him, this shouldn’t matter. If you don’t trust him , then you should probably break up with him so you don’t subject him to contestant nagging about his friends

[kylee2437]

Constant*

[Rosexøxø]

to me personally? bit weird. Does he have good reasoning for it or attitude towards it? Maybe.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

A friend is a friend & if a guy has female friends it’s ok for him to talk to them everyday as long as the female friend or her boyfriend, husband, girlfriend or wife are ok with it.

[Summeroflove]

That’s kinda what friends do…. I mean if you have a bad feeling in your gut. Okay… maybe you’re onto something.


Otherwise… That’s what fiends do

[MementoMori777]

So he wouldn't mind you hearing the conversations right?

[Asker]

GOOD QUESTION.

[Justaguyagain]

Is not weird except for the "everyday" part. I only talked everyday with two girls, one which i liked from the start, and the other one which i ended up liking

[FireFox001]

Yes, why would it not be okay? Well, the venting part is not, because it becomes cumbersome.

[Asker]

wait so are you saying it is weird or not weird?

[FireFox001]

It is not weird and it is not a problem. One can have friends. The part that would be bothering me is rather that the constant venting is unhealthy. It's never okay to use a friend for that.

[ThelmaRae]

No not really. I talk to my friends about everything

[TrillXHippy]

If they weren’t friends then they wouldn’t be talking every single day about everything

[Wise4myage]

Talking is not cheating.

[In_Trance]

Men and women can't be friends

[dean53AU]

I do...