My crush rejected me but he's giving me so much attention now and always annoy me in purpose and to make me laugh or something, what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

[Spade_01]

It means that he doesn't respect you enough to have you as his partner but knows that you are/were interested in him and now he's trying to use that for attention.

[Summeroflove]

If he’s annoying you tell him if you’re rejected leave him be if he likes you. He will come around

[Asker]

He not annoying me in a bad way it's more like teasing and joking around

[Summeroflove]

I see Asker. Well if he’s a good friend. Then just keep it that way. If he wants you. You did your part. I wouldn’t push it and loose him

[Asker]

Yeah I know, I'm not gonna push it, I've been just really confused lately cause he never acted like that around me and a couple days ago I don't what we where talking about but one of his friends was there too and said "date him not me" and then today me and my crush and his friend where all sitting next to eachother at a table and having a conversation my crush's friend said " ******* is your soulmate* or I think he said "you and ******* are soulmates". That's why I've been confused

[Summeroflove]

Yeah I understand. Did you ask him out and he rejected you? I mean beyond that…. You just have to say you tried. He said no and now you’re moving on. You can say “if he wants me he knows I like him and where to find me” you did your part

[Asker]

Yeah your right, and I didn't exactly ask him out I just said that I like him and then he said that he doesn't have a crush on me but he likes me as a friend, but yeah your right

[Summeroflove]

Yeah Asker. That’s pretty much rejection romantically. But at least he’s a friend. I wouldn’t push it. If you wanted to see if he would go on a date just to try it you could.

But I wouldn’t push it much farther then that especially if he said no

[Asker]

Yeah, wait but what do you mean If I wanted to see if he would go on a date just to try it I could?, cause like if he only likes me as a friend he would say no to that too probably?

[Summeroflove]

Yeah Asker, it’s probably best to move on at this point. I’m just saying if you really wanted to you could. But there is a chance he will say no.

[Asker]

Yeah he probably would say no, and I'm trying my best to move on but it's just that everytime him and I talk I start liking him more especially cause he's making it seem like he likes me

[Summeroflove]

Yeah I understand. If you wanted you could bring this confusion up to him. But moving on can be hard I do understand completely. But you’ll probably find someone else.

[Asker]

Yeah there's kind of a guy I've been kind of interested in lately but he's always talking to this one girl like if he likes her so I'm not gonna try to tell him that I'm catching feelings

[Summeroflove]

Well Asker. If he isn’t in a committed relationship you never know unless you ask. But whatever the case may be. I’m sure you’ll find someone.

[Summeroflove]

I know it’s hard to put yourself out there after you did it once and got rejected. But at least he was cool and is still your friend

[Asker]

Yeah your right I'm just a really shy person normally so its really hard to confess to someone like when I confessed to the guy that rejected me it was really hard cause I kept turning around and walking away and then when I finally got the courage to talk to him I could barely speak, but maybe I am gonna try to ask the other guy tho. And annyway I'm happy that the guy that rejected me is still my friend even tho we got a little distant after he rejected me but then weeks after we started talking again.

[Summeroflove]

Yes Asker it’s best for someone to be honest in a nice way if they’re not into you. You wouldn’t want him to string you along or be indirect and make you think you have some hope.

Absolutely as long as he isn’t in a relationship you need to put yourself out there. Even if you’re rejected again you aren’t wasting time on a guy who isn’t into you and maybe other guys will see you’re single and approach you

I understand 💯 that is is hard and at some point we have all been rejected in some way or another

[Asker]

Yeah I got rejected a lot in my life and been played before so it's hard getting rejected cause I feel like now one will ever like me. I'll have to ask the other guy tomorrow if he's in a relationship cause I'm not sure so I'll have to ask him and hopefully he's single, I can update you tomorrow on what he says.

[Summeroflove]

Okay I wish you the best! Yeah I’m really sorry to hear you have been played and rejected a lot. But there is probably someone out there.

[Asker]

Yeah I hope so and thank you

[Summeroflove]

Your welcome I hope so too

[Anonymous]

he's using you until something better comes along. I learned the hard way

[Iron_Man]

You’re kind of young for dating aren’t you?

[Asker]

No and my age isn't showing it just says I'm under 18 so I'm not to young to date I'm a teen

[yamenx]

This means that he does not see you as his beloved, but he sees you as a person dear to him

[Anonymous]

He is desperate for your attention.

[Asker]

Yeah he does seem like he is