I mentioned my ex in front of him and his friends thinking he will get the idea of “ I am seeing someone else and nothing is happening between us”. I was giving him attention but I was told that I am too cold. Still… I wonder why pretending he didn’t know.
Just stop beating around the bush and be clear by asking him out. If he says no you can move on. Otherwise you have a chance to get it to work. All this pushing and probing to get him to do it, is probably more annoying for him then benefiting for you.
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I see a couple of reasons:
1) he likes you but is showing you that he does not care about your social life, to show that he doesn't need you and to make you chase him
2) he doesn't like you and wasn't even thinking about your social life
3) he legitimately didn't know and either doesn't care, or was happy to know it
4) he may or may not know, but has no idea that you are signaling to him.
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This is a classic case of a girl thinking she is signaling to a guy when he has no idea. I bet he likes you and has not picked up on any of your signals. Be brave and actually say something
My guess is that he might be shy, and he said he didn't know just because he was flustered in the moment (I've been there).
Tell him you like him.
What are you talking about mentioning your ex to him and his friends? I thought you said you broke up? Your post is very confusing.
to show that he not interested even when you available
How many times do we have to tell girls, GUYS DON'T TAKE HINTS. Be up front about it.
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Because he was trying to play it cool the same way u haven't told him u like him
He probably assumes you are just getting run through.
denial. he is trying to cover up that he likes you.
Ma'am have u ever told him that you liked him?
Just tell him. Guys aren't complicated.
Ask him why
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