Why do some men not find Instagram models attractive?

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OfMiceandMen · Accepted Answer

A lot of the times, they just don't look natural to me. Trying to look like they have no imperfections. Give me a next door neighbor cutie any day with some little imperfections.

RavVid · Accepted Answer

I am not going to say they don't have good bodies though I am sure the photographer gets a good angle. Attractive is not just the body an camera angle.

MrOracle · Answer

There are plenty of "Instagram models" that are physically attractive, though there are also far too many who are completely fake - fake hair, fake lips, fake tan, fake boobs, fake butt, etc. Many guys are completely turned off by fake Barbies, and of those who aren't, they mostly only want them for sex, and would never take them seriously as a relationship partner. Obviously there will always be a few exceptions - men who are similarly shallow.

But even the women that are almost universally considered to be attractive physically still have a big stigma if they are monetizing their sexuallity, even if there is no actual nudity. This stigma only applies if we're talking about serious relationships, though. Men will pursue beautiful women for casual sex and not care what she does, because he's not planning to be around for long. Men who say they aren't bothered by women who monetize their sexuallity are usually men who aren't looking for serious relationships anyway. For the men who ARE looking for a serious relationship, it's a big deal.

When men are considering a girl for a serious relationship, they tend to care a lot about her innocence and purity. Nothing about being an Instagram model does anything to preserve her innocence or purity - just the opposite in fact.

Most women have trouble understanding that she can do sexual things, even publicly, and she'll still get tons of male attention - but it's 100% SEXUAL attention. No guy she would want to be with is going to take her seriously as a relationship partner if she's posting sexy pics on Instagram. And the ones who would be okay with it are usually damaged - such as the men who would "date her" in order to pimp her out and take her money (or at least, live off of it).

Girls who don't care about relationships don't need to worry about any of this, but if a girl wants a serious relationship, she needs to understand that such activities disqualify her - permanently - in the eyes of most men, ESPECIALLY the ones SHE wants.

Your innocence and purity is worth infinity more to a man than, say, a $20M bank account or even 9.5 physical beauty, at least if we are talking about a relationship.

razelove · Answer

I have no obligation to find women I'm never going to pursue, or sleep with attractive. It's the same as onlyfans, toss money to a girl to see some titties, when you could spend the same amount of effort, time, and resources on another woman you could actually sleep with, but has less of a porn start look to her.

I get that a lot of men find them very attractive, or instagram models/onlyfans would not be a business for many women. If all men found them attractive though, it wouldn't be isolated success stories that are 8/10 or higher, but all women who try finding success on those platforms.

There is no shortage of horny men (half the population), but there are differences in how we find relief there. Gay men for instance have a much shorter and more simple rat race, same if you're married, have a girlfriend, married and have a girlfriend, so on and so forth.

normalice · Answer

The certian knowledge that they will never bang them. To men, especially young men, the whole point of a woman being hot is to attract men for sex. If a woman is trying to be attractive for other reasons that undercuts the perception of hotness.

SnowedIn · Answer

A lot of ig models look fake. Or the set up for the pic looks fake. Or it looks like the message is "give me attention" -- it might not be, but that's the message it sends. And, in some cases, just because "everyone" finds that model attractive, doesn't mean all men will.

ZXCwWRQWz · Answer

I think women misunderstand how even the horniest guys work. Take Playboy or Penthouse or even Hustler magazine. They don't just have spreads of the women doing spread eagle showing their birth canals. Most men don't objectify women that much.

Instead you got whole article on the women featured which shares their hobbies and interests and how it was like growing up. I figure that is as important to jerking off to their pics as their pics. I think probably a lot of guys might even be like, "Oh, she loves this country music? It's my favorite too!" Then maybe skeet on the magazine and get the pages stuck together. You know, it's sort of objectifying still but not as much as feminists make it out to be.

And that's one of the problems to me with Instagram models from what I can tell. They show their ass and whatnot but they aren't showing who they are that much.

Nikki1989 · Answer

At least 50% of the time, they are lying just to fit in with the current trend to hate anything and everything. I don't buy it for a second.

Lionman95 · Answer

Because they either lie or because they understand "attractive" as a woman that´s a potential partner different than a hot woman that make them think of sex.

I think there are other reasons as them being not active on social media or they know that pics on social media are edited and are not showing the normal body but instead ideals.

Miristheiss · Answer

I don't even have Instagram.
I tend to not respect women if they post revealing content and half naked pictures of themselves.
I know not all women post such pictures but when I hear "Instagram Model" I think of some low class soft porn harlot.
Women and Instagram. Bad news. Many of the classy women don't even have Instagram and they aren't obsessed with social media.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would think it's either because these girls look like they don't have jobs or wear too much make up, or because their bodily features are not anatomically normal, such as having breast or but implants that exaggerate the physical feature and not looking like somebody was born with that appearance.

CrimsonAngel09 · Answer

Because they know that's not how the AVERAGE woman looks.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Lol instagram models do absolutely nothing for anyone in life.. eye candy? Sure. Can they cook, clean, take care of a house, take care of the books, etc.. no instagram model I’ve heard of has been able to do those things. So I blanket them all under that umbrella. Also, 99% of their bodies are fake. Fillers, injections, maybe liposuction, not to mention the massive pounds of makeup to hide their flaws. Yeah, instagram models can stay online. All they are good for.

Finchie40 · Answer

My guess is because they probably look fake , most models are airbrushed to look more beautiful than what they really are , they do the same thing to a lot of actors and actresses as well , they enhance their image to draw more people in

BCA6010 · Answer

An IG "model" is basically the town whore. Everyone has seen her, maybe some guys get titillated scrolling through her slutty pictures and reels, but at the end of the day there's nothing there, and that's before taking into account that those photos are almost always enhanced and misrepresent reality. That in itself is unattractive, and a woman who's self worth revolves around exhibition isn't really relationship material worth pursuing.

BeMuse · Answer

What's attractive about average to ugly women, plaster in way too much makeup, run through a bunch of software filters, using some obscure angle, then highly edited in Photoshop? You realize when you look really fake, most guys just assume you have a penis in this day and age. Too much tranny shit in the wold we live in. Guys want to see natural beauty to know you are what you claim to be.

BlissfullyCurSed · Answer

They all have different tastes. Take the user called "snowedin" for example, I checked his profile and he likes trannies with cheap wigs. Of course, a man who likes that type of ladies wouldn't go for instagirls as they seem very feminine.

jakesanterden1 · Answer

fakeness. i work at a college and see this SUPER fit chick all the time, plastered in make up. saw her once in her halls of residence after a night out, no make up. looked like she'd been hit by a bus.

MrPickles13 · Answer

It depends on the model, some it's down to preferences. Others it's down to so many other things maybe how thier personality comes across or seems to. The high use of lots of make up filters and that. You can't tell how real they are and that could be part of it.

Chthou95 · Answer

Because those women are the ones that come with the most problems and usually they dont know how to keep a relationship. Their worth and self validation is tied to s bunch of horny dudes on the internet. She'll always choose social media over a healthy stable relationship

PizzaPieMamaBear · Answer

Because they’re hot. I don’t know too many guys over the age of 20 let’s say that would enter into a serious relationship with these type chicks. But they’re hotttt for sure 🥵 🤤 🔥🔥🔥

MrCommodore · Answer

I'm not on Instagram, but a girl being a model doesn't mean she is found amazingly attractive by all guys. There are lots of female models who I wouldn't date, just not my type.

Fireguy17 · Answer

because to them they are not attractive.
Where is it written that just because you post pictures of yourself ie the "models" on Instagram everyone automatically has to think they are pretty?
Not to dis the people posting pictures of themselves but many of them pretty much look like each other and seem to be fairly common when compared to others that are out there.

mateta_haidara · Answer

Because they look fake and don't show that they have anything else to offer than their bodies. There are lots of Instagram models, but there are fewer women one can be actually compatible with. Even if I had the money and lifestyle to offer so such a woman, most of them have values which are not aligned with mine.

RingOfFire · Answer

Don't know the reasons other men have for finding them attractive, but many of the girls in these pics seem artificial, fake, filtered, phony, vapid and self absorbed to me. I don't find that attractive. Any girl who feels she has to post sexy pictures online turns me off. It tells me that she has emotional issues and needs attention.

jshm2 · Answer

The same reason some women don't find them attractive. Instagram is mostly just aspiration and advertising. You know the people on there are either peddling or bullshitting

Adam1978 · Answer

Because they don't find fake and narcissistic people attractive. The best girls don't have Instagram and would never want it.

DaisyM23 · Answer

different people have different taste, i could show you 10 guys i would find attractive but you may not find some or all of them attractive

RHK36 · Answer

It's manufactured. The vast majority of models and influencers aren't authentic or real. It's a new version of reality TV.

Also I'm not a simp. I don't give a shit how pretty someone is if they are a dumpster fire inside.

Apple1996 · Answer

Those guys are smart and don't fall for the "filtered" look

Beatrix7 · Answer

sometimes some things could be fake on them no sure or show off to much or some sort of thing like that am guessing

Sour-rose · Answer

Same reason why some men aren't into body functions like farts and what not. They just don't. :)

Mangospacho · Answer

It’s like asking why cheese connoisseurs don’t like Cheez Wiz. It’s cheap, it’s mass produced, there’s never a Cheez Wiz shortage even when there’s an actual cheese shortage, you can find them anywhere - even gas stations.

linka_pat307 · Answer

Does everyone have to, not only men I think those girls or guys are fake , and probably stressing themselves on getting followers by exposing themselves

MORPHEUS_12 · Answer

Because everyone says ,"IG models" is now the new code word for prostitute.

TooHot2Care · Answer

I went on a date with an IG model once. ugh... Good looking physically, her personality was shit.

Christoff92 · Answer

Because tons of them are using fake accounts in a way to get anything in return. Even Onlyfans that's a income produced network would be ever persons advantage to set up a fake account 😐

humanearth · Answer

Because they come across as fake and not real

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Most of them have fake bodies and enhanced faces. 😳

fonduegirl · Answer

Guys are usually jealous of how easily a woman gets attention.

stratford · Answer

A lot of instagram images are edited or appear very contrived, which I find a turn-off.

007kingifrit · Answer

they look so fake and plastic, they look nothing like real women

In_Trance · Answer

Social Media is fake

runnerboy · Answer

No idea but the ones you have here are way hot. I'm a horny teen guy and find them all hot.

worldscolide · Answer

Because 99% of those women are attention seeking thirst trap thots, and fake as hell.

art84 · Answer

They look fake compared to what a regular girl would look like.

Rizwan_khan · Answer

Because they are not attractive and most of the insta thing is fake.

Pudsmucker · Answer

We men have a tendency to be a little shallow when it comes to attractiveness. I'm a little biased because I live with the most attractive woman in life. But I do like to look at eye candy every once in awhile.

Minahh · Answer

They're probably healthy and not messed up like other ones who like photos of fake Barbies because they have nothing better to do.

MountAverage · Answer

Wait, are you asking why different people have different tastes?

Wise4myage · Answer

For me, it all depends if I am attracted to them or not.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Because there air brushed and filleted Rather normal girl.

msc545 · Answer

All the filters and fakery tend to make things less attractive.

Keishio · Answer

Because they all look the same. Fake as a £3 note and they're permanently online

PointTaken · Answer

I don't have IG. I actually only know 5 people with an IG account and 3 are women.

SunnyRS · Answer

I am not on Instagram so i don't know about Instagram models but if I am going with the images on the question they look attractive because they are fit and healthy and for me someone who can take care of their health is attractive.

chicken_nugget24 · Answer

Because they aren't real. Real women don't loon like this!

LiamJHayden · Answer

Probably because Photoshop and cosmetics can deceive.

Twalli · Answer

Because we don't have Instagram to look at hot girls. Also a real girl is sometimes more appealing.

CubaPirate · Answer

Because they're mostly attention seeking high maintenance throts

Adam_Badry · Answer

Because they are not really real :))

justabuddy · Answer

I just think isagram those so many of those types of girls at you that you find yourself overwhelmed. Like where are the camping profiles?

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