This is kind of long, so bear with me. There is this guy at work I kind of like who is very outgoing with everyone, both male and female, except for me. He is the type who initiates all the plans with others, but he almost never talks to me. Only on rare occasions. Like the other day, I was an early out, and when I was leaving, he said, "You leaving me already? Another time, he showed me this drawing at work and told me he was trying to figure out who it was. He asked if it was me. I told him no, but a few days later, I found out it was actually him. But sometimes, it feels like he is completely indifferent towards me. Like he rarely acknowledges me in passing. When we do talk, he does not usually hold eye contact, and if we make eye contact, he will usually break it. He fidgets a lot, and I sometimes think he is nervous, but he does not act that way with other pretty women, so I feel like his nervousness is not a good sign. He also does not follow/friend me on social media when he does with our mutual friends. But if he is so indifferent towards me, why does he talk about me? For example, he has told several people about me being a brown belt in Martial Arts, and I can tell he is genuinely impressed. Sometimes, our mutual friends at work will tease me about him. One of our friends was flirting with me, so I made a friendly/flirty retort, and he said the guy I like will be upset. He has also mentioned to me how the guy I like told him about me being trouble. Another one of our friends told me I should arrest him (we're all in security) because he is a loitering homeless person and called him ugly to gauge my response. But I'm not sure if they were teasing me because he likes me or they know I like him. So I'm really confused about where this guy's head is at.
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This is mostly details that don't matter. If you like him then talk to him. Don't wait for him to make a move.
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yes it is a sign he attracted to you
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