Is he insecure or something?
It means he is not interested in you.
Men are taught to be gentle with women / not hurt their feelings our whole lives. IF we are in the position to turn you down, we will try and make it not about what we know will hurt your feelings.
He can't just tell you. I'm not attracted to you, I don't want to date you, you annoy men, etc.. Because you will cry, tell all your friends, and he will become an asshole for simply not wanting to date you. Could also ruin his chances with any of your friends that he actually does like.
You shot your shot, he turned you down politely. I would take the L and move on, if you keep pushing you will get the answer that you don't want to hear, and you will deserve all of the feelings that come with that.
If he liked you he would date you or at least pursue you. He is telling you that you will find someone that loves you the way you want to be loved, because he is not able to do that.
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It's a polite way to decline your offer. He means he does not want you as a girlfriend, but that does not imply you are generally not attractive. He reassures you at the same time that there is someone out there for you who fits better to you.
At least he made it quite clear. There is really no nice way of saying this.
You're not a good fit for him, and he's not a good fit for you.
He means exactly what he says.
Basically, you're not his type and you aren't going to be.
So accept it and move on.
You're not going to be everyone's type. There doesn't need to be anything wrong with either of you for that. Chill.
He doesn’t want to be with you but doesn’t want to be harsh or mean about it.
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He knows you are interested, so why are you assuming there is something wrong with him? He's not interested in you and letting you know that - indirectly, and obviously TOO indirectly. He doesn't want you and he's telling you to move on 'cause it's not gonna happen with him.
A bunch of people are interested in me. They aren't my type or they lack a characteristic I deem essential. We're not compatible. I don't want them to die in a fire, it just ain't happening. They're still cool people, so I hope they find someone more compatible. What's the hard part about this? You're overthinking it.
It’s another variation of “I just don’t think we’re compatible”
It’s basically a way to reject someone without upsetting anyone.- u
He's trying to let you down easy. Or that's at least the most likely reason.
No, he's giving you a soft rejection. Instead of stating why he isn't interested in you he took the easy road with another version of " it's not you it's me."
He’s rejecting you. That’s what he means. Girls are funny. They can’t handle rejection.
Did you sleep with him?
Maybe he doesn't think he's right for you?
It means he is not interested.
He friend zoned you.
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