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He also said ” I’m very sure that you’ll meet your soulmate one day” If I’m such a catch why he rejected me
While rejecting me because of some differences why did he say ” I really believe that you’ll meet more compatible guy soon” why is he so sure?
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Perhaps he respects you but didn’t believe the two of you were compatible. Try not to overthink it. There are other men and you should be with a man who wants to be with you.
He said our life plans don’t align. I don't know if it was just an excuse
It is really impossible to know, but try to consider that knowing whether that is the reason or an excuse will not change the outcome. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Try to take care of yourself while you process what has happened and heal.
I was talking about in the future like after 10 years and I would’ve wanted to move with him and possibly if we have kids then with our kids…
I also talked about how I would like to get better job in the future and study more. did I make the impression that I don’t want to have kids in the near future? I think he wanted kids soon and said he wants big family
It seems likely that he figured you didn’t want a large family or to have children soon and broke up with you for that reason.
What can I do? I dis earlier say I want big family too..
I don’t know. If his decision is final there is nothing to be done but move on. If you’re willing to have a large family soon, you can tell him that and see what he says.
I don't know When I asked him what plans didn’t align he just said ” in general they don’t align”
You can ask him to be more specific, but if he doesn’t want to be open about why he is making this decision you cannot force him to tell you.
What would cause guy not to open up about it?
Avoidance is the way a lot of people roll these days. It’s why ghosting is so common in dating. People take the path of least resistance without consideration for the feelings of others.
Do you he ghosted me?
It doesn’t sound like he ghosted you, but he might never give you a full explanation of why he broke up with you.
Why wouldn’t he want to give me full explanation :/ ?
Maybe because he was lying..
It’s a possibility. But how can you ever know?
Should I reach out to him or just give up?
If he hasn’t asked you to not speak with him about it, you can ask him to give a more thorough explanation for the sake of helping you have closure.
He rejected u because u wanted to move away and he wanted to settle he made the comment because he was being polite
I didn’t want to move away now I was talking about in the future like after 10 days and I would’ve wanted to move with him and possibly if we have kids then with our kids…
Explaining that to me is pointless clearly its somthing he had issue with
Or he’s just making an excuse
Or he made a excuse wither way he didn't want to be with u at this point it dont matter what reason is true
When I talked about me trying to get better job in the future and studying more did I make the impression that I don’t want to have kids in the near future?
U could say that yes
He was before talking about how we wants 5-6 kids and I told him that I also want several kids I guess he thought I don’t really want kids?
Again that's possible
All in all do you think his opinion about our life plans not aligning was real consern for us not to continue?
Yeah I do
Do you think I can persuade him?
Lol at this point not even close lol
Why do you think so?
Because u seem way too impulsive and erratic u go from accusing the guy of being a shitty person to asking if he is reasonable in what he said
I haven’t said these things to him though
It dont matter I commented on your ability again u seem way to impulsive to be able to convince him because your opinion changes so frequently
I think he had reasonble reasons to think that our life goals don’t align. Ok, how can I persuade him to continue this?
I dont believe you are capable
Why do you think so I’m not capable of it?
I have already explained how
Because I change my mind about him?
Because u don't seem capable of currently being in a working relationship the way u go from disliking him to wanting him to blaming him then feeling sorry for yourself
Because you don't feel down...
Really? So he really thought I’m that pathetic…
Lol yeah
Why do you think so :/?