Would it be weird to ask a man this?

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i'm 23 (24 in 3 months) and i still haven't had sex yet. I haven't found anyone interested in me where i live & the men i run across on social media are all weirdos so i never take it further than chatting online.

i have this one friend & i want to ask him can i practice on him. but i'm not sure how that would sound to a man , or if that's even something you'd ask a friend..

how would i ask? is it weird to ask? what do men think about teaching?

God_of_Thunder · Accepted Answer

If he's a good friend, one that you trust, then it wouldn't necessarily be weird.

A lot of guys would take it as a compliment, and be very happy, even eager, to teach you, or help you learn.

Some other guys would use it as an opportunity to add another body to their count, though, which is why I suggested that it be a friend you trust completely. You don't want to end up being used, or taken advantage off.

One other note of caution, too, is that it would be very easy for one, or both, of you to catch feelings from that. If that happens, and the other person doesn't return those feelings, someone could end up very hurt, which would affect the friendship.

All in all, it's not a bad plan, and with the right person, could be a very good experience for you. Just be careful, and aware of the possible consequences, so that it doesn't turn into a disaster.

RespectfulGuy · Accepted Answer

Just ask. But I suggest face to face. Have a lunch or dinner date.

Be casual, talk and try to "get into mood" (the sexual mode where we talk casually, laugh loudly, touch each other on the hands, occasionally eye contact until we feel relax, and of course become flirtatious eventually.)

And if you could make it natural, sex will be added to the agenda.

PS: you may prepare him for sex by suggesting a meal that may take half a day, hence "keep yourself free for a few hours after meal".

Yes, go ahead. Life's short and lose it already.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I actually had a friend do that to me in college, so I don't know if it's "weird" or not, but you wouldn't be the first. We were having drinks at some upscale bar and she just flat out asked me. I chuckled and thought she was kidding. She just smiled and nodded her head, so I thought about it for a really long half a second and was like "well F it... sure."

Sexiestjohnson · Answer

I think this world is truly sick these days. Yes you would have your feel. Yes he may say yes but once you cross that line with a friend, the friendship ends and you can't save it.

I think love is a lot better than lust. The sex thing is overated. Focus on your bag, dreams and love. Sex is empty. Not as thrilling outside of love as people make it seem.

Anonymous · Answer

Well honestly are you somewhat attractive? If you are chances are he’s be up for it. Unless he sees you as a sister. I’d make sure too that he isn’t w someone as well. But I’d you were my friend, somewhat cute I’d be more than happy to teach you a lot of things.

kuffs · Answer

I wish my friend growing up had asked me. Its ok if its weird. Its a sensitive subject. You or he will probably fall in love with the other. So thats a downside. But good luck.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Can understand you being curious and think as a trusted friend he can help answer questions. But because sex involves hormones and is wrapped in emotions best to not try the act it out.

Does that make sense?

Berethor · Answer

Read the nature adores a virgin trope, he lucky if a virgin woman want to "practice on him".

Nahid1707 · Answer

You would have to communicate and ask this yea While being aware rejection can happen or he might not like you

Cheerfull009 · Answer

May be you are not beautiful and sexy, or may be you are too shy to go advance to meet some male, search a man of your equal standard and invite him for dinner, he will be intimate with yu

karekaaaa · Answer

You wanna learn sex? Wanna try it? Will u lose virginty for this guy?

Nominal · Answer

Don't ask to practice, just do it. Ask if he want to have sex with you.

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